Okay so last night during sex, my wife got off wonderfully yet once she did get off…… I went limp. Tried it again rubbing it a little and went limp yet again….. I was just shocked really….
Wife got up went to the bathroom, came back, and went straight to bed…. I laid awake wondering wth…. Today I’m still in shock thinking what I’m missing here so I’m lying everything out hoping somebody sees something I don’t or has been though the sam….
I talked about it with her and she thought it was because we sometimes use a much larger dildo and she hasn’t gotten it out lately thinking that was causing this….. advised it isn’t. Feels just fine even afterward and it turns me on seeing her have pleasure.
I did go limp once trying to get it in because it was difficult….. this has happened a couple of times.
She is pretty vanilla outside of occasional toys and even dislikes being on top. The toys used I would typically use them on her and she maybe masturbates once a year. She doesn’t really like oral to her (even though I enjoy it) and really doesn’t like it to me…. Though she used to do both years ago….
We have to schedule sex in because otherwise she’ll forget about it entirely….
I’m very sexually driven myself…. Or at least I thought I was 🤷🏻♂️ I don’t like being fully on top due to pain sometimes in shoulders and I feel like I’m crushing her (she’s small and I’m mostly muscular)…..
Got questions? Ask away……