Hey,
I'm looking for a dominant partner :)
Generally speaking: I'm 28 years old, from Germany (I can offer to chat in English or german/deutsch), about 1.82m tall, and outwardly I'm anything but a submissive (maybe a bit stereotypical, but I'm extroverted and dominant, perhaps the archetype of the 'classic but friendly boss'). However, I am definitely nerdy. Often in the classic sense – I enjoy gaming, I think Star Wars is great, but I also love cooking or getting into coffee (my quarter-life crisis thing is, of course, the espresso machine).
As I said, I don't come across as a typical submissive. I appear confident on the outside, but as soon as I open up to someone a little, my introverted submissive side emerges. I was once described as a "cuddly cat," and I think that fits. I like to cuddle and I also like it when my partner teases me (love language = bullying?). I can sometimes be a bit bratty, especially in the transition between my "this is how I am on the outside" and "only like this when I feel safe".
Open communication is an absolute must. There's truly nothing worse in the world for me than the feeling that something's wrong, but my partner won't tell me what's going on. I tend to overthink things, and when these processes drag on for weeks, I feel significantly worse. I want to communicate openly and need someone who's on board with that!
My kinks: orgasm control, CFNM, servitude, and I'm also a bit masochistic. But I'm open to trying new things!
What I'm looking for: I'm looking for someone I get along well with. Ideally, we'd chat first and see if there's chemistry and where things might go. I'm open to whatever comes next :)
Do you need any more information from me? Feel free to ask!
I will definitely reply to serious inquiries!
Oh, and what's your current favorite song? :D