u/PuzzleheadedWonder

Hello, I'm 29, male, black, and live in Polk County Florida. I've put in effort to improve myself (lost over 100 pounds, joined intense outpatient therapy, using meetup apps and dating apps, etc). Dating apps aren't working and the meetup apps are empty. If I'm lucky I can hangout with my friends every other week. I'm in a ghost town with nothing to do and no one to meet. The one meetup group I was doing went down and no others are showing up in a 50 mile radius of me. I don't smoke or drink so barcades are the only bars I can go to for meeting people and I haven't had luck with them. I'm trying to meet more people, but specifically someone special. At this point I'll settle for artificial since I don't have a choice.

Looking for a woman older than 25 and with no kids. Non religious and would share the highs and lows of their day over text. Possibly chat over something like discord and play games together. Just talk about anything and have a genuine conversation. Maybe share time over coffee or ice cream. I'm struggling with money right now but I can go into my savings if need be.

I'm 29, male, and living in Florida. Still a kissless virgin but I've been on a few dates. I have friends and I don't have any issues talking with women. I'm already in therapy, seeing a psychiatrist, and I've lowered my standards to being open to date any women who doesnt have kids. Nothing is working and I want to lose my virginity. My area is dead, I couldn't even find guys to experiment with on Grindr or sniffies. With no other options, I'm planning a trip to Nevada this summer to finally lose it at a brothel. I'm to paranoid to try escorts, and the times I tried recently ended in getting scammed or no responses. I have a good amount of money in savings that I'm willing to spend for this. But then the question of a sex therapist came up.

Florida doesnt have any, but I'm gonna have to travel by plane regardless so its not out of the question. Should I just stick to the brothel or go through sex therapy that can end with the same goal accomplished? And before it gets mentioned, yes I tried Tinder. Yes I've tried using reddit, yes I'm on dating apps and paid for them. I've done everything I can so paying for it is my only option regardless.