34 [M4F] #Wisconsin #Online - Midwest Dom seeking an intelligent sub for deep chats, emotional warmth, and mind melding
In Brief
34, SE Wisconsin, conventionally handsome, and looking to engage in soul-happy conversations, share recipes, play with power dynamic tensions, and strive to build something worth having.
I have always been the grounded, thoughtful, and stable individual in just about all I do, and I am proud to have built that life, minus having my second half. Now, I am looking for someone witty, kind, caring, emotionally available, and up for adventures.
About Me
34, based in SE Wisconsin.
5’9”, confident, cool under pressure, and great at breaking apart complex situations.
Gentle, easy to trust, great at communicating, and I will always hold the door for you.
Driven, emotionally available, stable, and practical with my approach to projects (I have too many tools).
Dresses well and believes that a wardrobe is an extension of your confidence and how you view yourself, but also has plenty of sweaters which could be “shared”.
Enjoys learning about others, and will excitedly dispense fun tidbits and practical advice that I learn.
Current administrator which means I can summarize what you are talking about and then help you change your position, or support your side.
A busy body with plenty of hobbies, ongoing projects, extravagant ideas, and gusto.
Somehow both an old man and an undying hipster - two dualities that balance sensibility and wanting to go to a block party.
Experienced in the language of administering spankings, short term orgasm denial, and establishing healthy kink rituals and structure.
What I am into
Trust, and the slow burn of everything that comes after our walls have started to crumble.
Creating a healthy and classic romance where I can be your Gomez and you, my Morticia.
Calm confidence and clarity while being emotionally available.
Strong communication and natural inquisitiveness that may challenge ideas, tease the mind, and teach new topics.
Someone who treats anyone in the hospitality and restaurant industries with kindness and respect.
Respect for others and humility with success.
Social media not being the focus of all idle time, nor over sharing of life.
Respect for self and treating your mind and body well.
Waking up early on weekend mornings, grabbing a black coffee and a sausage biscuit, and then hitting up flea markets and rummage sales.
Who I am looking for
A woman who enjoys emotional warmth, inside jokes, gentle banter, honesty, and who wants a connection.
Someone who has found peace with being child-free and will resort to spontaneous adventures, frivolous purchases, and world travel to compensate.
A woman who is confident, intelligent, financially independent, and has hobbies.
Treats their mental and physical health with care, and looks after themselves.
Silly Miscellaneous Facts (about me and otherwise)
Mid century Modern enthusiast and I am trying to turn my home into an MCM hidden gem.
"Red sky at night is a sailor's delight, red sky in morning is a sailors warning" is a real phenomenon.
My ADD loves bullet points and spreadsheets.
I have an ongoing list of restaurants I want to try in the city I live in.
You cannot imagine a new color - as in there are no new colors that have not existed already.
I plan my projects in spreadsheets, down to individual items and where to buy them.
The universe is expanding and this expansion is speeding up. One day, the universe will expand faster than light and all light and stars in the sky will disappear.
I am a motor head and have three cars - I have a spreadsheet of cars to keep an eye out for (it's not a problem, mom!).
My spice cabinet is getting out of control.
Did you know that pineapples were so valuable in the 1800s that they were more expensive to buy than diamonds, and they were so prized that they were displayed in cases in people's homes even after they had become rotten?
The dirty work
Perhaps a short list of my favorite kinks:
Creampie/cum play
Breast play
Edging
Bondage
Toys and objects
Sensory play
Spanking/impact play
Orgasm control
Humiliation
1950s dynamics
Private public play
Domestic
I now realize that I am rambling but if anything in my post has captured your attention, I would highly enjoy a message to read. Talk to you soon.