27 [F4M] - let’s fall in love (quietly)
Hello 🥰
So my husband and I have been together since high school but over the years we’ve slowly became more like friends and roommates than partners. There’s still love there but the passion, excitement and emotional connection just isn’t anymore. I miss feeling desired and I miss the anticipation. I miss staying up getting to know someone, smiling at my phone when their name pops up on my phone and sneaking away just to check if they replied. I miss that chemistry with someone.
I’m not looking to blow up anyone’s life and I’m not looking to change my situation or yours. I’m simply looking for a long term connection with someone who understands this kind of loneliness and misses feeling wanted too. I know how awful that sounds but I’d rather be honest than pretend otherwise.
What I want is a genuine connection. The flirting, banter, emotional intimacy, attraction, conversation that makes the days better. I want to feel excited about someone again. I want that “can’t wait to hear from you” feeling. I want to feel excited getting to know someone again. I want a pocket boyfriend
A few things about me:
- 27
- Married
- One baby
- West Coast
- Part-time work, so I have a decent amount of availability
- Affectionate, attentive, emotionally open and looking for consistency
What I’m looking for:
- Around 24–35ish (flexible if we connect)
- Someone emotionally intelligent
- Good conversationalist
- Playful/flirty
- Looking for something deeper than just getting off
Also, to be very upfront: I’m not looking to be someone’s on demand sexting partner. Physical attraction matters, obviously, but I’m looking for chemistry and connection first. If all you want is explicit chats then we definitely won’t be a match.
I’d love something where we eventually exchange voice notes, maybe phone calls, photos throughout the day and become a comforting part of each other’s routine.
If you read all of this, tell me your favorite movie of all time and why. I’m looking forward to meeting you 🫶