I’ve been married for almost 17 years. Over that time, I’ve been the good guy husband that supports and does all the things to ensure she’s happy all while putting my own happiness to the side. Not saying I’m perfect, but I made sure everyone was always good while ignoring if I was good or not. I realized during our last date night that I’m tired of my effort being ignored/glazed over like it didn’t matter. I take full responsibility for what I have created.
However, I want to put this energy into someone that will appreciate it. I want to spoil you with attention, fun conversations, and flirty texts that make you smile at your phone. When time allows, let’s video chat and send voice notes to each other. If the chemistry is right and we’re both comfortable, let’s meet in person. Let’s build a comfortable safe space where we can share, vent, and just be our fully authentic selves. I don’t want to blow up your life or change anything in mine. I just want to build that boyfriend/girlfriend “I can’t wait to talk to you” energy.
If this sounds like a good time to you, know what you want, take care of yourself, and want a fun, low-drama side relationship with real chemistry, shoot me a message about the last movie you enjoyed. I hope to chat with you soon. I know you’re out there.