u/Quiet_Ad4444

M4F Laid back no strings fun

Early 40s male. Professional, well balanced and uncomplicated. Looking for someone with a mature outlook on sex who understands the value in having a trusted friend with benefits. It can be simple if both people can be honest with themselves and each other about what it is. Prefer slim, fit and thick women. Physical attraction is a thing, but it’s not the only thing. If you’re cool, we might vibe.

Respectful, experienced and open minded.

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u/Quiet_Ad4444 — 7 days ago

M4F seeking low pressure casual hangouts

Early 40s male, intentionally single, witty, kind and fun to be around. A little too busy to meet new people in any of the classic ways, so I’m posting on here, which isn’t soul crushing at all.

Hoping to meet someone who is also busy, or has their own life and doesn’t want to take on the pressure of being more for another person than they can offer, but enjoys the benefits of having an understanding FWB. Best to keep it simple.

Looking to open up some conversation and see if it leads anywhere. If it doesn’t, it doesn’t. Mutual attraction is important, but I won’t ask for your photos right away. Just be cool.

I’m sorry I didn’t include a dick pic, I know women love that.

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u/Quiet_Ad4444 — 13 days ago

If you’re a good girl who believes in the conventional societal standards of dating, first off - what are you doing here - secondly, this post probably isn’t for you.

I like a confident woman who isn’t shy about exploring her sexual needs and desires. Limits are great, and we should set them, but I like someone who isn’t afraid to show her adventurous side in private. Some of the best interactions I’ve had in life were with relative strangers because there are less expectations to feel perfect for the other person.

I’m in my early 40s, have my shit together and I’m an attractive person. I have a nice home and good friends but I’m too busy for active dating. To be honest, I’m not looking for love anyway.

I’m clean and disease free and would appreciate the same from you. Some talking would be necessary to make sure we’re both legit, but I’m only interested in someone who is ready to make moves if it feels right. Goers go.

I’m not looking to dominate anyone’s time - you should have your own life and be good with casual meetups. It might be one time or maybe become a more regular thing. There’s no way to know until we know.

If you’re feeling under appreciated - I can help you with that. If you’re just out of a relationship - the easiest way to get over someone is to be with someone else. You can use me as your bridge to move on to your next great thing and I won’t make it complicated. I don’t have access to my emotions, so you can move on at any time and it won’t be awkward.

I’m open to all races and prefer a slim, fit, or thick woman. I got love for the bbw’s of the world - I’m just not looking for that right now. I prefer women 30-45ish who know what they want and aren’t afraid to vocalize that.

I won’t ask for photos of you right away, so please be able to communicate who you are and what you’re about. That doesn’t mean I’m looking to talk endlessly though, so let’s stay on task.

We will all be dead before we want to be so make the most of the time you have while you have it. Do something for yourself.

Not into anyone with a vested interest in alcohol and drugs. Nothing personal, but I prefer someone in control of themselves.

Feel free to message me to talk, the worst you’ll get is a polite decline if there isn’t a mutual interest.

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u/Quiet_Ad4444 — 17 days ago

Well, you know the rest.

I like a good girl who knows how to go bad.

Not really looking for anything serious.

6ft/190

Intelligent, hard working, witty and attractive.

Prefer a woman who acts on her impulses.

Tattoos, piercings or issues with your dad are all appreciated.

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u/Quiet_Ad4444 — 18 days ago

No one can prepare you for how much time you’ll spend working in your 40s. Free time is a like a desert oasis that proves to be a mirage. Not what I had in mind when I pictured having my toes in the sand.

Looking to meet someone else who understands the stress of working too much and needs some relief.

I don’t want to be your boyfriend. I won’t have the time to be at all the things that matter to you.

I do want to meet you for dinner occasionally, listen to what you have going on and offer what I can, when I can.

Looking to keep things light. No strings with mutual respect.

Honestly, I don’t care if you respect me even, but I will be nice to you.

Be clean and disease free, but as far as anything else goes - you can be batshit crazy for all I care. That’s probably my speed anyway even if I try to fight it.

Good talk, thanks for reading.

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u/Quiet_Ad4444 — 20 days ago

Early 40s professional. Too busy for active dating. Not really looking for love anyway.

Prefer confident women in touch with their needs who are not afraid to vocalize them. Everyone likes a little dirty talk.

Food, laughs, flirting… maybe more if there is mutual attraction.

Will share pictures in a message if you’d prefer to know what I look like. Not looking to waste anyone’s time.

Philly and surrounding suburbs.

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u/Quiet_Ad4444 — 24 days ago

I have the evening free and I’m looking for company. Not looking to slow roll anything. I want to chat for a little while to establish mutual interest and then maybe meet for some dinner at an agreed upon location. After dinner I’d like to go back to my house to work on your needs. 100% only looking for the horny scrollers with an open mind to pursue a nsa casual date. Early 40s, considerate, kind, humorous and attractive. I do well for myself on the open market but I’m more interested in linking with a stranger this evening. Clean, no drugs, no alcohol. It’s all good with me if you want to have a drink to relax, just don’t get out of control. Messages are open. Have a blessed day.

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u/Quiet_Ad4444 — 25 days ago