I (30M) have been exploring the spa scene and loving it.
Its been a few yrs since I've been in Kerala and the spa/ massage parlor scene is amazing. I never get sexually frustrated here. Got 6-7 of my usual places I go to, pay the damage at the counter and get into a relaxing session with sex/handjob and BJ based on my mood. Obviously respect the massage therapist, they're also in a hard spot while trying to satisfy you. So be mindful. It's honestly been quite liberating to not run after sex and chase relationships and dating apps just because you're horny. I take my time to chase the right person. Taking out the desperation has done wonders to my confidence and quality of dates.
Overall a surprsing discovery.
u/Quockerwodger_ — 1 day ago