My friend since high school (R) would always invite me to go out with him and his friends but I would always lag. A few months ago I decided to finally go out with them but I was kinda nervous since I’m DL and wasn’t sure what kind of guys they would be.
At first it was me, my friend (R), and his friend (A). We hung out like 3 or 4 times and I got to know (A). Eventually (A)’s cousin, (Z), started joining us so it was 4 of us. Most recently another of their friends joined us so it’s now 5 of us.
I’ve had straight friends in the past but we never really hung out like that so I never really experienced hanging out with “the boys”. It’s definitely been an interesting experience hanging out with stereotypical straight guys.
What’s been more interesting to me is how at least one of them, (A), seems DL. The first few times we hung out he would playfully make flirty comments or engaged in physical contact like grabbing my thigh when we sat next to each other or tickling me when I was walking in front of him. But I noticed he doesn’t do that to the other guys. So I’m wondering if he does that because I’ve shown him I’m cool with it, or does he do it because he thinks I’m DL and maybe he’s testing the waters to see if anything comes of it?
I definitely thought he was DL when I first met him but his actions make me think there’s a high possibility it’s true. I’m not hoping anything happens but I am curious if any DL guys have experienced the same thing and if anything came of it?