Unsure whether to try chastity or not, advice wanted!
I’ve been very interested in the concept of chastity for a long time and I find it very exciting, but I’m not sure if it’s right for me. I have a couple of issues I’m grappling with and would like some advice before I spend the money on a cage.
For starters I’m single and don’t really have any romantic interests at the moment and I understand that I could just do it for myself, but I’m apprehensive about long term wear and am concerned that since I’m completely in control and can get off without it that it will end up being a passing interest and that I’m more in love with the fantasy than the actual reality of it.
Secondly, and the probably more complicated issue, I’m a gay virgin in my late 20s (lol) and I’m worried that I’m putting myself in a corner in a way. I obviously don’t have any experience with sex beyond the physical concept of it. I’m, probably hyperbolically, concerned that I’m just letting fantasy take over and not engaging with myself in a healthy way. I don’t really know anyone else in mine or a similar position and I’m frankly too embarrassed to ask my therapist, if that would even be appropriate in the first place.
All in all I could be blowing this way out of proportion and perhaps this is a bit pathetic to be asking, but I really want some genuine advice or perspectives on this if anyone here has any. Thanks in advance!