GF and I have played with a cage for years, but recently came up with a way to make it more fun.
I wear the cage 24/7 for 3 weeks straight and I can earn “hearts”. Every time I earn a heart it goes from her “honeypot” to my “star” as you see on the board. I can redeem the hearts for the following;
1 heart - cage off handjob for one minute
2 hearts - longer cage off handjob but no cumming
3 hearts (gets really fun with options)
- she pegs me with cage on, I can only cum caged
- I can cum myself only caged with vibrator
- I can masturbate only with a dildo, caged
4 hearts - I can cum with vibrator and dildo
5 hearts - I can cum cage off any way I choose, like regular sex basically.
6 hearts - same as 5 hearts but I can ask for pegging.
There is a maximum of 9 hearts, this is how I earn;
Date night - 3 hearts
A “nice gesture” like detailing her car - 1 heart
During sex - 1 heart per orgasm I give her (3 max)
Wearing cage 3 days straight - 1 bonus heart
Sometimes she will give me a bonus heart if I’ve had a rough day or stressed etc.
Luckily I love giving oral and she is often very happy to have just that and keep me locked.
She also can take away hearts if I am bad, or punish me for not wearing the cage 24/7 etc or she can still choose for me not to cum even if I have redeemed enough for it, because she is still in control.
Typically I get to cum 1-2 times per week.
If I cum when not allowed we haven’t figured out a punishment, because it hasn’t happened yet.
This has been extremely fun for us, and on week 4 (period week) we call it earning week, where everything remains the same but I can choose to not wear the cage for an entire week, it’s an excellent refresher.