Hello there. Call me Rand. Yes I can ramble, be a bit goofy, and run on, but I think the right woman won't mind and may even enjoy the longer post. Let's give this another go around. Guess the right lady just hasn't seen my post yet.
I'm a 36 year old man that works IT in a remote position, but my family and friends are here, so have no intention of leaving Utah. On this note, I've tried with talking with ladies that live further way and honestly, I just can't make that work. Unless you are already planning to move here in the not to distant future. I need someone that we could reasonably be IRL in the future. So prefer someone either in Utah or one of the states closer. Don't really want to go beyond PST to CST.
Ok, onto a bit about me, I'm about 6'1", average weight with brown hair and dark blue eyes - yes they are gorgeous, contain your jealousy lol. I'd say I can be a bit playful in that I joke around a decent amount. Which can range from dry sarcasm and wit to goofy dad jokes. Though I will be stern or stoic when need be. ie when my sub needs to be reminded whose in charge.
I'm also pretty nerdy and love rock music - almost always on a Coheed and Cambria fix these days. I love Fantasy/sci-fi shows, movies, and books - Brandon Sanderson is one of my favorites. Also a big gamer, video and table top, including things like D&D and Warhammer regularly - if you couldn't tell by most of my post history lol. Mostly introvert, but still can be social, it'll just leave me drained. I love animals, only have a cat right now. But would love to either get another or a dog... or both.
Raised Mormon, but would consider myself inactive though still lean towards that religion if not as much the church itself. I'm more of a right leaning libertarian/moderate politically speaking, so make of that what you will. I also understand something like a lack mutual attraction is hard to move past. So probably share pictures relatively early makes the most sense to me.
I do want someone that I can come home to and cuddle with as much as someone that will submit to me and be my lil homemaker. Also would be great to have someone I could take to family dinners with my parents and siblings and things like that. So looking for kinky behind closed doors, but can win over my family - not that hard honestly, they are great. Of the 5 love languages Physical Touch and Quality Time are the most important to me. Not saying you have to be the same, but just helping you to understand how I show my affection. So to me, staying in and just hanging out in the same room, with occasional interaction is as appealing than going out for the evening. Or you know doing kink stuff in a mundane part of our day.
I want something more like traditional gender roles relationship. Someone that will handle most of the household cooking and cleaning. I'm willing to work with specifics of course. And I do enjoy cooking every so often, so we’d work that in as well. Someone that wants to be the mother to our future children. I don't have any yet and have never been married. I am looking for something monogamous that will eventually lead to aforementioned marriage and family. Prefer for my woman to be between 26-35, but willing to be somewhat flexible. Prefer someone that is shorter than me and relatively HWP, not saying need a perfect figure. But prefer someone that at least tries to take care of themselves.
Giving it some thought, the inability to have children is not necessarily a deal breaker, because adoption is always an option. But not interested in someone that never wants children. And though I'd rather my wife be a SAHM, I also understand that isn't always reasonable these days. And once the kids reach a certain age having a job (part/full) can be a good thing.
My Kinks: Dom/Sub, to me being a Daddy Dom is about protecting and caring for my sub as much as punishment and control. Helping her to be the best version of herself while knowing I have someone in my corner through thick and thin. Also into breeding - both RP and then after marriage, real deal - spanking, orgasm control, begging, and maybe some choking. You know, the normal stuff lol. I love the idea of collaring my woman. So big fan of that and chokers (they are also good for public stealth use). Some Brat training can be fun, but I prefer a mostly Good Girl. I'd like a level of 24/7 TPE and free-use, but the level and details would be worked out between us. Since real life is a thing, and that doesn’t so much have to mean constant bdsm, kink, and sex. More just our lives having that knowledge of where we stand at all times. Even if we joke and play around with each other. And do stupid relationship stuff as well. I love the thought that at any moment, I could take what’s mine to remind her of that fact.
I'm also a big fan of dirty talk, so I've realized that's why gags don't really appeal to me very much lol Yes I know, more than a few random thoughts.
My Hard Limits: Scat, Gangbangs, sharing my woman with other men in any fashion - whats mine is mine. Permanent damage, Pegging, underage. Though I'm a Daddy, I'm not interested in ABDL. No drugs or smoking. I don't drink myself, so light drink on your part, at most.
Other kinks and limits I'd like to talk and work out between us.
Chat me if you are interested. Send me a bit about yourself and what caught your interest with my post, this will help me know that you read at least some of this crazy long ramble lol.
And because manners are important. Thank you for your time and consideration.
Yours Truly,
Rand, aka Potentially Daddy.