Why are most women who call them sugar babies overweight?
This might offend people, but I genuinely don’t understand it.
A lot of women in the sugar lifestyle expect men to be rich, generous, successful, emotionally mature, well connected, and willing to spoil them. Which is fair, that's part of the dynamic. A successful man often spends years building wealth, status, and stability to provide that lifestyle. In the same way, I think it’s reasonable to value women who invest effort into their appearance, health, and presentation.
The amount of times I get sent heavily filtered pics or angles hiding obvious weight issues is honestly wild. Physical attraction matters. If a man is expected to bring money, stability, and success to the table, then it’s reasonable for a woman to bring beauty, fitness, femininity, and self care.
Curious if others in the lifestyle feel the same way or see it differently.