Hey y’all!
I have been at this sex thing for some time and I have pretty great sex regularly! However, I struggle with confidence. I’ve had some confusing, ego-bruising interactions involving penis play that leaves me hesitant so I have some questions!
A little back story, I am about 50/50 with experiences with circumcised vs uncircumcised penis and I have found that uncircumcised penises are a lot easier to work with and that’s where a lot of my confusion comes from. My experience and understanding is that the foreskin makes it so that lubrication isn’t as essential. Whereas, I feel like dry rubbing on a hard circumcised penis must feel uncomfortable??
Maybe I am coming at it from the wrong angle. I have a particularly sensitive vulva so I often find mens handling to be a bit rough…
Anyway, all of that is to say, what do you like?
Are my theories about uncircumcised vs circumcised correct?
I always feel like I am going to hurt the guy, how rough can I be?
How essential is lubrication? I tend to have a drier mouth and struggle to keep shit lubed up, suggestions?
I might not use enough pressure, should I use more?
Is deep throating overrated? Do you ever feel that people neglect the tip?
Do you have any tips for if I like giving head but can’t have cum in my mouth (I will throw up)?
TLDR: I am confused and concerned about hurting their penis but I want to perfect my penis handling skills.
What does a good blow job/ hand job look like for you?