I have had multiple Sugar relations before. What differentiated those girls from paid escorts were that there was a connect beyond just sex. We used to go for movies, parties, dinners, even longer trips a few times. What I brought to the relationship was not just money, but also other stuff - I have helped one get her dream job, sometimes acted as an agony aunt for them to rant and in general gave good life advise (I hope). And what I got in return was way beyond sex - it's the energy, positivity, feeling young again sometimes even new gen things like the latest games and memes. When you get older life wears you down and my sugar babies have been my go to solution to recharge myself and get away from all the negativity.
But all of this works only if we meet in real. When there is a personal connect, where we can cuddle around and talk or open up over a drink. I just don't see this happen virtually over Cam.
Why are so many SBs now preferring virtual over IRL? I get some of them may not be co located but a good sugar daddy should have no problem sposnoring tickets and acco. Or is there fear of the society? Or about getting scammed?
Don't get me wrong. I think it's perfectly fine if a young girl wants to connect on Cam first and be comfortable before meeting in person. Not wanting to jump on the bed in the fiest meeting is also understandable. But I don't get this only Virtual, never IRL funda.
I am curious to hear why girls now seem to prefer this mode more and more.