I love submissive men.
I didn’t know anything about BDSM, but I always felt like a FemDom at heart. Looking back, I realize I’ve always unconsciously acted as a dominant. However, society always pushes the norm that men should be dominant and women should be submissive. For a long time, I tried to follow that expectation, but I never felt like I was truly myself. I only feel like my authentic self when I get to take the lead, be a little mean, and playfully tease.I love a guy who is cute, sensitive, and completely devoted to me. There is something so hot about a submissive man who loves acts of service and just wants to obey everything I say. I didn't realize this was a real, shared lifestyle until I watched the movies Sanctuary and Love and Leashes . Seeing those female-dominant and male-submissive dynamics on screen was incredibly validating. It made me realize that breaking out of traditional gender roles is completely okay, that this community is real, and that I am proudly a dominant.