u/Reasonable_Award_622

Edit 1: yes, I am real. No, I am not a bot.

Edit 2: how anyone reads this and thinks “yep, she just wants sex” is beyond my comprehension. If that’s what you’re looking for, I’m not the girl for you.

Perhaps an unusual opening, but I’m not interested in wasting your time or mine. If you do not have the luxury of being able to meet up for more than a couple hours during the work day, occasionally coordinate “business travel” to skip town for a night or two, and the resources to actually do so, we won’t be a good fit.

Now, on to the good stuff.

Groundhog Day has got the best of me. You know the drill. Refereeing the kids, the hustle at work, and exchanging pleasantries with your spouse who feels more like a roommate just to keep up appearances.

Many of us make sacrifices for the “greater good” of our families - but it comes at a great cost, and the price is steep.

This can’t be as good as it gets.

I want to build something intentional with the right person - one where we both are seen, understood, valued, adored, and cared for. Someone who understands how going through the motions to keep the peace at home is its own kind of exhausting, and is ready to create a little corner of the world where neither of us have to pretend.

I‘m looking for a mutual desire to see each other grow, and live a little (or a lot). I want feelings and passion and, eventually, an intimate relationship with the kind of sex that makes us both see stars. I want “good mornings” and “good nights” and jokes that nobody else would understand. I want to make eachother feel alive again.

About me: 40, mom, (married), very much have my shit together. 5’9”, 180 lbs, Caucasian, and probably give girl next door/soccer mom vibes with a bit of a naughty secret. I lean casual and spend a lot of time outdoors, but appreciate an upscale spot in a pair of heels just as much.

About you: a connection isn’t built on “stats”, but there’s a few I can’t negotiate on. 35+ (40+ preferred), and live on or travel to the west coast semi-frequently. You’re emotionally intelligent, witty, can carry a conversation beyond an impressive first message, and you resonate with what I’ve written above.

You’re not a cake eater (no judgement - just not a match) and you’re not looking for a casual hookup. You know what you’re looking for and you’re not just messing around.

If this sounds like you, I can’t wait to chat. Let me know one thing from this post that resonates the most for you.

Edit 1: yes, I am real. No, I am not a bot.

Edit 2: how anyone reads this and thinks “yep, she just wants sex” is beyond my comprehension. If that’s what you’re looking for, I’m not the girl for you.

Perhaps an unusual opening, but I’m not interested in wasting your time or mine. If you do not have the luxury of being able to meet up for more than a couple hours during the work day, occasionally coordinate “business travel” to skip town for a night or two, and the resources to actually do so, we won’t be a good fit.

Now, on to the good stuff.

Groundhog Day has got the best of me. You know the drill. Refereeing the kids, the hustle at work, exchanging pleasantries with your spouse and coordinating the necessities.

Many of us make sacrifices for the “greater good” of our families - but it comes at a great cost, and the price is steep.

This can’t be as good as it gets.

I want to build something intentional with the right person - one where we both are seen, understood, valued, adored, and cared for. Someone who understands how going through the motions to keep the peace at home is its own kind of exhausting, and is ready to create a little corner of the world where neither of us have to pretend.

I‘m looking for a mutual desire to see each other grow, and live a little (or a lot). I want feelings and passion and, eventually, an intimate relationship with the kind of sex that makes us both see stars. I want “good mornings” and “good nights” and jokes that nobody else would understand. I want to make eachother feel alive again.

About me: 40, mom, (married), very much have my shit together. 5’9”, 180 lbs, Caucasian, and probably give girl next door/soccer mom vibes with a bit of a naughty secret. I lean casual and spend a lot of time outdoors, but appreciate an upscale spot in a pair of heels just as much.

About you: a connection isn’t built on “stats”, but there’s a few I can’t negotiate on. 35+ (40+ preferred), and live on or travel to the west coast semi-frequently. You’re emotionally intelligent, a bit of a pain in the ass, can carry a conversation beyond an impressive first message, and you resonate with what I’ve written above.

You’re not a cake eater (no judgement - just not a match) and you’re not looking for a casual hookup. You know what you’re looking for and you’re not just messing around.

If this sounds like you, I can’t wait to chat. Let me know one thing from this post that resonates the most for you.