I’m a 38-year-old guy that's looking for that special girl to have by my side, I am ok with things starting online first.
I work in tech and have my life together, stable, driven, and always working toward the next goal. I have a senior position where people report to me, I'm a natural leader, but especially love leading, guiding, and taking care of my girl. I’m naturally confident and decisive, but I mostly love being protective, nurturing, and deeply attentive to the person I’m with. I enjoy being a steady presence, a mentor/teacher, someone you can rely on, lean on, and feel safe exploring with.
I'm caring and guiding, but also structured and firm. I enjoy setting expectations, giving direction, and building a deep relationship while also keeping things playfully fun.
I love anime (Studio Ghibli nights are a favorite), games (video, board, card), movies (fantasy & sci-fi especially), writing and creative projects and creative people in general.
I’m active (snowboarding, tennis, biking, golf), but I’m just as happy staying in, cooking together, gaming, or curling up for a cozy night. I'm half-korean too if that is important to you.
Ideally I'm looking for someone younger than 28. Slim or height/weight proportional is my preference. I love affectionate and communicative girlies. Anime/nerdy interests are a big plus. I also tend to get along well with autistic girls too...
Experience level doesn’t matter. If you’re new, I’m patient and enjoy guiding. If you’re experienced, I value someone who knows herself and what she wants. I appreciate clingy energy, it’s nice knowing we’re both on each other’s minds.
I’m currently in Seattle but I might be moving in the near future, I love the idea of moving my girl in with me, and I might even let you help me decorate. I love to travel and would love to find a travel partner too.
If you’re looking for a confident, established, nerdy guy, I'm your man. Tell me about yourself, and let’s see where this goes.