u/Routine_Software_505

So I like age gaps, at least 8 years younger OR older than me. So under 28 or over 44, generally speaking. Looking for a relationship. Going through a divorce and want to find someone who appreciates what I have to offer! Which is a lot, I like to think.

Dark colored short hair/facial hair, glasses, average body. Nerdy ADHD gremlin. I read, I write, I cook, I like walks in the woods in a non serial killer way. Unless you are into it being a serial killer thing... I DO consume what is probably a concerning amount of true crime. I'm good at romance, for one, and I like to take care of people, especially cooking for them.

Look forward to hearing from you.

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So, I'm going through a divorce. It isn't where I want to be, it isn't how I envisioned things, but it's where I am. "Ta eph’hemin, ta ouk eph’hemin", "What is up to us, what is not up to us." Coming to grips with that, the fact that so much of what went wrong and what happened was not up to me. I had to focus on what \*was\*. So, I'm making the change. I'm ending the cycle.

So, why am I here? Well, this has been building for a long while, and I've been through a ton of therapy, and I've wasted enough of my life chasing after BS. So I'm looking for someone, hopefully a special someone.

I'm nerdy and neurodivergent (ADHD gremlin). A dad. 5'11", short dark hair/facial hair, glasses, average body. I'm a nerd, but there's layers. I can talk your ear off about The Wheel of Time, Star Wars/Trek, make you a bouquet of roses out of paper AND fix your washer.

Most of the women I've been with have been curvier, with tattoos/piercings but those are by no means requirements. Just be 28-42, left leaning, and be female. Trans women are women.

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Gets what, you might ask? That feeling when you're just stuck, unable to leave but desperate for excitement, desire, and all the things the other person can't provide. I don't hate my wife. I've sure got a lot of reasons why I could, but I don't. But the passion I used to have has long since been driven out.

Which brings me here. I want to find someone to talk to, to provide the missing pieces. I'm in therapy, I'm (generally) happy with myself. I don't need someone to make up for my shortcomings, I WANT someone special. A reason why I smile, why I laugh. I wanna get excited about what you're excited about and have you do the same for me.

I'm a dad of 3. A nerd who apparently doesn't always fit that mold. Average body, dark hair, some facial hair, glasses. Most of the women I've been with have been curvy and tattooed but that is by no means a hard requirement. Would be cool if you were nerdy, and being to the Left politically is absolutely necessary.

Can't wait to hear from you.

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(Online but EST, please)

Gets what, you might ask? That feeling when you're just stuck, unable to leave but desperate for excitement, desire, and all the things the other person can't provide. I don't hate my wife. I've sure got a lot of reasons why I could, but I don't. But the passion I used to have has long since been driven out.

Which brings me here. I want to find someone to talk to, to provide the missing pieces. I'm in therapy, I'm (generally) happy with myself. I don't need someone to make up for my shortcomings, I WANT someone special. A reason why I smile, why I laugh. I wanna get excited about what you're excited about and have you do the same for me.

I'm a dad of 3. A nerd who apparently doesn't always fit that mold. 5'11", 200lbs, white,, brown eyes, black hair, some facial hair, glasses (only one tattoo, bet you can't guess what it is) Most of the women I've been with have been curvy and tattooed but that is by no means a hard requirement. Would be cool if you were nerdy, and being to the Left politically is absolutely necessary.

Can't wait to hear from you.

(Online but EST, please)

Gets what, you might ask? That feeling when you're just stuck, unable to leave but desperate for excitement, desire, and all the things the other person can't provide. I don't hate my wife. I've sure got a lot of reasons why I could, but I don't. But the passion I used to have has long since been driven out.

Which brings me here. I want to find someone to talk to, to provide the missing pieces. I'm in therapy, I'm (generally) happy with myself. I don't need someone to make up for my shortcomings, I WANT someone special. A reason why I smile, why I laugh. I wanna get excited about what you're excited about and have you do the same for me.

I'm a dad of 3. A nerd who apparently doesn't always fit that mold. 5'11", 200lbs, white,, brown eyes, black hair, some facial hair, glasses (only one tattoo, bet you can't guess what it is) Most of the women I've been with have been curvy and tattooed but that is by no means a hard requirement. Would be cool if you were nerdy, and being to the Left politically is absolutely necessary.

Can't wait to hear from you.

(Online but EST, please)

Gets what, you might ask? That feeling when you're just stuck, unable to leave but desperate for excitement, desire, and all the things the other person can't provide. I don't hate my wife. I've sure got a lot of reasons why I could, but I don't. But the passion I used to have has long since been driven out.

Which brings me here. I want to find someone to talk to, to provide the missing pieces. I'm in therapy, I'm (generally) happy with myself. I don't need someone to make up for my shortcomings, I WANT someone special. A reason why I smile, why I laugh. I wanna get excited about what you're excited about and have you do the same for me.

I'm a dad of 3. A nerd who apparently doesn't always fit that mold. 5'11", 200lbs, white,, brown eyes, black hair, some facial hair, glasses (only one tattoo, bet you can't guess what it is) Most of the women I've been with have been curvy and tattooed but that is by no means a hard requirement. Would be cool if you were nerdy, and being to the Left politically is absolutely necessary.

Can't wait to hear from you.

Gets what, you might ask? That feeling when you're just stuck, unable to leave but desperate for excitement, desire, and all the things the other person can't provide. I don't hate my wife. I've sure got a lot of reasons why I could, but I don't. But the passion I used to have has long since been driven out.

Which brings me here. I want to find someone to talk to, to provide the missing pieces. I'm in therapy, I'm (generally) happy with myself. I don't need someone to make up for my shortcomings, I WANT someone special. A reason why I smile, why I laugh. I wanna get excited about what you're excited about and have you do the same for me.

I'm a dad of 3. A nerd who apparently doesn't always fit that mold. Average body, dark hair, some facial hair, glasses. Most of the women I've been with have been curvy and tattooed but that is by no means a hard requirement. Would be cool if you were nerdy, and being to the Left politically is absolutely necessary.

Can't wait to hear from you.

Gets what, you might ask? That feeling when you're just stuck, unable to leave but desperate for excitement, desire, and all the things the other person can't provide. I don't hate my wife. I've sure got a lot of reasons why I could, but I don't. But the passion I used to have has long since been driven out.

Which brings me here. I want to find someone to talk to, to provide the missing pieces. I'm in therapy, I'm (generally) happy with myself. I don't need someone to make up for my shortcomings, I WANT someone special. A reason why I smile, why I laugh. I wanna get excited about what you're excited about and have you do the same for me.

I'm a dad of 3. A nerd who apparently doesn't always fit that mold. Average body, dark hair, some facial hair, glasses. Most of the women I've been with have been curvy and tattooed but that is by no means a hard requirement. Would be cool if you were nerdy, and being to the Left politically is absolutely necessary.

Can't wait to hear from you.

Gets what, you might ask? That feeling when you're just stuck, unable to leave but desperate for excitement, desire, and all the things the other person can't provide. I don't hate my wife. I've sure got a lot of reasons why I could, but I don't. But the passion I used to have has long since been driven out.

Which brings me here. I want to find someone to talk to, to provide the missing pieces. I'm in therapy, I'm (generally) happy with myself. I don't need someone to make up for my shortcomings, I WANT someone special. A reason why I smile, why I laugh. I wanna get excited about what you're excited about and have you do the same for me.

I'm a dad of 3. A nerd who apparently doesn't always fit that mold. Average body, dark hair, some facial hair, glasses. Most of the women I've been with have been curvy and tattooed but that is by no means a hard requirement. Would be cool if you were nerdy, and being to the Left politically is absolutely necessary.

Can't wait to hear from you.

Gets what, you might ask? That feeling when you're just stuck, unable to leave but desperate for excitement, desire, and all the things the other person can't provide. I don't hate my wife. I've sure got a lot of reasons why I could, but I don't. But the passion I used to have has long since been driven out.

Which brings me here. I want to find someone to talk to, to provide the missing pieces. I'm in therapy, I'm (generally) happy with myself. I don't need someone to make up for my shortcomings, I WANT someone special. A reason why I smile, why I laugh. I wanna get excited about what you're excited about and have you do the same for me.

I'm a dad of 3. A nerd who apparently doesn't always fit that mold. Average body, dark hair, some facial hair, glasses. Most of the women I've been with have been curvy and tattooed but that is by no means a hard requirement. Would be cool if you were nerdy, and being to the Left politically is absolutely necessary.

Can't wait to hear from you.

Gets what, you might ask? That feeling when you're just stuck, unable to leave but desperate for excitement, desire, all the things the other person can't provide. I don't hate my wife. I've sure got a lot of reasons why I could, but I don't. But the passion I used to have has long since been driven out.

Which brings me here. I want to find someone to talk to, to provide the missing pieces. I'm in therapy, I'm (generally) happy with myself. I don't need someone to make up for my shortcomings, I WANT someone special. A reason why I smile, why I laugh.

I'm a dad of 3. A nerd who apparently doesn't always fit that mold. Average body, short dark hair, some (trimmed) facial hair, glasses, brown eyes. I'm not picky, just be a woman or identify as such. Attraction is so broad I couldn't possibly identify a "type", and although most of the women I've been with have had a lot of tattoos/piercings it isn't a requirement. Would be cool if you were nerdy, and being to the Left politically is absolutely necessary. I would like if it progressed to in person meetups. I'm not super local to Annapolis (about an hour away, to the south), but it's the closest city to me that's broadly recognizable to other Marylanders. I'm also very comfortable there.

Can't wait to hear from you.