[M4F] Long Distance Relationship Requires Compromise
Being stationed half a globe away was not in the plans for us.
I was supposed to just be sent nearby, close enough for me to drive on weekends and see you.
But the tensions in the east have ramped up and I'll be in a submarine for the next 8 months; guarding peace in the region and far away from you.
The few times I get to talk to you shows me that you aren't exactly happy with my deployment. And neither am I.
I couldn't say no. It would have been a career suicide for my military aspirations.
Yet, I also know you very well and though you're loving, faithful, and the sweetest woman I have ever met, you do have needs.
Those ten or fifteen minute phone calls or video calls that we have are not enough to satiate the desires in you.
Desires that have been great ever since you started having sex.
I love that about you.
You're a sexual woman. You aren't shy about it.
And I can't fathom seeing the unsatisfied and angry expression on your face for the next year.
"Baby" I break the ice during one of our phone calls.
It has to be short. The calls are always short.
"I was thinking. Seeing as I'm not coming back for another eight months"
I pause. I can almost hear you clench your jaw and clench a fist.
Our plans to start a family, to look into buying a house, and to start being more serious has gone out the window with this abrupt deployment.
"Would it be so bad if...you know...with my approval, you go and...see someone? To help you with...you know..."
I'm so nervous. You hear it in my voice. You probably have no idea what I'm talking about.
But what else can I do when I fear losing you. When I am in constant fear of being blown up or killed and that it probably is driving you crazy too.
"Just until I come back" I add.
Though, do you even understand where I'm going with this?
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Hey DPP!
Let's talk and brainstorm and see if we find common ground.
The premise is straightforward.
A loving boyfriend/husband wanting the best for the woman he loves.
How do we go about it? Do you relent and think about it or jump right into it?
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