22 [F4A] #Minnesota — sub looking for dominant and friendship
Prepare for a lengthy post:
If you’re looking for a long-term, serious relationship— keep going. You’re not there yet, unfortunately. My intention isn’t to get into a long-term, committed relationship. It’s to learn, grow, and experiment with a genuine dominant that I can trust.
I have never had a positive sexual experience with another person. Sex has been held against me in the past, and I was shamed for years about my kinky interests. While I have worked on my mindset surrounding sex, I have yet to explore and experience what it even is.
Additionally, to be very honest, I’ve only ever had one partner— and that was a woman. My experiences with men are slim and honestly quite horrific (what do you usually do when a man traps you outside and asks how much you can cum on a first date?)
So, what I’m looking for:
- Patience, communication, mutual respect.
- A genuine interest in helping me explore BDSM.
- Mutual attraction, we can swap photos
- Under the age of 30 (not a loose boundary!)
- Ambition/Intelligence
- Friendship/we get along outside of d/s
- MUST BE IN MINNESOTA OR WISCONSIN (within a few hours of me).
DO NOT interact if you are any of the following…
- Outside of MN/WI
- Looking for a quick hookup
- No patience
- The word “Cock”, “Shalong”, “Dildo”, or anything like that is in your username (feels immature to me).
- 30+
- Don’t have a drivers license
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So you might be thinking now, wow, what do I get out of this? Well, fortunately for you, I’m a whole package. Here’s some facts about it me!
- I am intelligent! (Starting my masters degree this fall)
- I am hard working/ambitious! (I have two jobs)
- I am active! (Gym, outdoors, running)
- I am adventurous (I travel a LOT, love trying new things, especially with kink wink)
- I’m very outgoing (Life of the party, social butterfly, will bust a move at any wedding sober & make friends with anyone)
- I’m a great listener and love to ask questions (day-to-day and also great for night activities)
- I’m very considerate and love to show my affection through physical touch, gifts, and thoughtful gestures
- I’m very expressive (we aren’t nonchalant here, chalant is the way)
- I will show up for you.
- I’m used to doing everything for myself, so I am independent.
Sounds awesome, right? Now let’s evaluate some facts that mayyyy not appeal to some.. Just so we’re all on the same page! I value honesty and communication.
- While I’m intelligent, I’m also fairly oblivious/clueless with social cues sometimes (I have diagnosed autism lol)
- I occasionally get stuck in doorknobs, door frames, cabinets, doors, and fall on nothing (Extremely frustrating, certified hazard)
- I have a busy life! School, work, social events— I can’t be online all the time. That’s why I need to be around someone close by, way easier!
- I can be a LOT sometimes. I’m very expressive— so when I feel excited, I get EXCITED (Jumping around, energetic, will grab you and swing around).
- I will stop mid-sentence to point out a fuzzy animal, I have no fear saying this.
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Now for the fun part, drum roll, kinks!! I am interested/do enjoy the following:
Praise, degradation, CNC, submission (I can switch but don’t leave that way much), leash/collar, impact play, knife play, pet play (I just like wearing ears, nothing crazy), psychological manipulation, orgasm control, orgasm denial, bondage, sexual torture, overstimulation, service, brat, and probably more!!
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Next— vanilla interests, just to lay down some common ground. It’s important to note that I want to feel a connection with someone, I’m not looking for a hookup.
Outdoor activities (kayaking, running, swimming, etc), dancing (I do go to clubs sometimes just to dance with my friends!), crochet, painting, video games, reading, trying new foods, hiking, psychology, true crime, makeup, and probably more! I’m a certified hobby jumper.
What I look like:
Brunette hair below my shoulders, wavy. Blue eyes (typically my highest compliment wink), 5’6, freckled skin, medium build, small hands, & white.
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If you made it this far, woo! When you send a message, please make sure it’s detailed and that you tell me about yourself! Add what you look like, which side of MN/WI you’re in, and what you’re looking for in a D/S partnership. I will ignore messages with minimal information!
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