Helping my wife.
Hi, long story short I (M) enjoy ABDL and being a little (70/30 non sexual/sexual) and my wife (F) knows this and is ok with it but has not really ever participated in facilitating it.
Recently she has expressed much more interest in participating as a CG but really doesn't know the first thing about it for example how to act around a little/how to treat a little. This should be fine and I'd love to guide her more about specifics and what I want but I am absolutely terrible at explaining what I like and have some kind of weird guilt paralysis when it comes telling her what I want, I don't blame any of this on her (it's probably because of some kind of trauma response).
So I guess what I'm asking for if it's a thing... Is there any kind of "guide book" for lack of a better word just anything explaining/giving examples of things that littles might like/how to act as a CG. Just as something we can look at and I can easily point to things I do and don't like.
I know it's a bit weird and vague but hopefully someone understands what I'm trying to ask for 😅. Tyia.