





Friday: the week’s tension, the weekend’s release
A mood board, or maybe I’m just manifesting.






A mood board, or maybe I’m just manifesting.
We’re all busy, but not now. This time is for us.
Small everyday acts; they don’t always lead to sex or a full blown session, but they feed the body and keep the mind in the right space for the day ahead.
Aftercare is not just for subs - it is a part of the whole dynamic. Sometimes I need to switch off too.
Cum is adornment ❤️ one you wear because you earned it.
It’s time to deal with the consequences - denied, edged, and mercilessly teased ❤️
On a sub like this we often hear people talk about the need for aftercare. In my experience, aftercare can look very different depending on the dynamic and the individual: from a cup of tea, to snuggling, to simply being given some space. So, in the spirit of sharing experiences and suggestions, I would love to hear about what *you* need, what aftercare looks like for *you*
I know they are there, lurking, but we can fight them together
I’m curious to hear what music takes you into that Dom or sub space. What is it about the song that does it for you?
For me it’s usually a combination of groove and rhythm, as well as lyrics and dynamics that trigger my Dom side. Sometimes it’s a specific memory associated with a song. These are a few tunes that come to mind:
Gooey by Glass Animals
Total Control by The Motels
Tributary by Julian Lage
Cómo Te Quiero by Khruangbin
Adorn by Miguel
…always keen to hear what people are listening to in their kinkiest moments ❤️
Thoughts that distract me while at work ❤️