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Plus sized so don’t message if not your thing! kind of looking for two things in one - I don’t easily orgasm during sex, especially not from penetration alone. but I always feel rushed to, like in relationships I don’t wanna take up too much of my guy’s time and I end up faking if he’s done. Silly. At this time in my life I want to take the more selfish road and have one FWB who genuinely enjoys going down and isn’t going to be bothered if it takes a while. I want my goal to be genuine orgasm - not performing, not worrying about my partner during, etc. Once I finish, I’d love the second part to be you flipping me over and fucking me without having to worry about how quick you finish since you know I’m already pleased - primal, happy reward - plus post-orgasm sex feels crazy good.

not looking for multiple men for this role so I won’t be responding to “heys” and “I’m interested” without any details letting me know you’ve read my post. Include your age and location, and be ready to send a pic right away! if you don’t wanna send a pic, skip messaging me please. Also looking for super local near tosa only as it would be the most ideal that you’re quickly available without too much planning - thanks!

**IMPORTANT PART: If you’re really interested send a message telling me why you think we’d be a good fit, age, where you’re from, what you want. Simple “heys” will be passed by. Thanks!

Cuban and black, on a successful health journey and still going, always wanted to be a mom but not with just any guy who wouldn’t be a positive, active part in a child’s life. I’m aware that many on this subreddit are looking for more non-attached breeding, but thought it couldn’t hurt to put out feelers out for a man who is fully family oriented. Id love to be with a man who had the capability to allow me to be a stay home mom and raise our baby. This is a tall order, I’m aware - again no harm seeing what’s out there!

I want to have one child ideally, but in an absolutely wonderful, stable situation with a great father, if both parties wanted I could be open to a second. But absolutely not more than 2 for me, personally. I’ve been a private nanny for over 6 years and know in what situations I’m able to give my all.

Currently in the Midwest as is the majority of my family, so it could be cool if you would be someone comfortable in Wisconsin. That being said, again for a wonderful, stable situation with a great man, I would consider relocating for sure. But not looking for long distance pen pals - if you’re interested and live elsewhere I want there to be actual plans and intention to get together. I do not want to be caught in a Reddit endless message loop until it fizzles after a week - if you're going to reach out have actual desire and intention to start something real.

I’m very loving, family-oriented, love to write, create, eat at yummy restaurants, spend time with loved ones. I love human connection and am always looking to expand my circle - would love to grow my extended family, be a part of your life and the lives of the people who are important to you, and hopefully they want to be involved in a new chapter for you. 

As the title says I don’t want a breeder - if you have a bunch of kids out there you don’t have contact with it’s personally not for me. I’m not closed off to fathers with kids - just don’t want to be one of many women you’ve knocked up.

Ideally would love to get pregnant before or by July of 2027, when I turn 32. The “when” within this timeline very much depends on how you want to go about everything, and is open for discussion. I think the perfect situation would be building up over the summer, solidifying plans, and trying in the fall. But not a deal breaker! I won’t be trying for a baby before we’re stable with a plan though, so again if you message please be ready to meet and plan and be intentional! Thanks again! 

Plus sized, so don’t reach out if youre not down. Mixed, single, essentially without dressing it up too much, I’m looking for a semi regular booty call. I want a clean and attractive man in my phone who I can text when I need some good sex and maybe lowkey bed hangout after. To be completely transparent, I’m out in the dating scene, not in a relationship but open and going on dates etc, but I’m keeping that separate from my sexual needs, if that makes sense. lol it sounds silly. I just want to have good sex with someone who I don’t need to overthink if it’s too early or if they’re the committing type if our lifestyles mesh etc etc. Handsome, bit in control in the bedroom, exciting, consistent - that’s what I want. No one night stands, but no need for more than good chemistry in bed. I am just looking for one person, and would like it to be someone who’s not sleeping around with tons of people, especially if youre not wrapping up. don’t need any of that. Also please be very near Milwaukee tosa, like booty call distance 😂 I don’t wanna wait two hours for a hookup every time.

if you’re interested and want a response send your age and location and what you want, “hey” and “interested” messages will just be ignored. Thanks!

Reedit might not be the place to find a serious relationship, but it’s worth reaching out in such a wide pool on the off chance that it finds someone who aligns! 

I’m half Hispanic half black, 30, living in Milwaukee, and looking for intentional dating leading to a life together. I have learned in life what I want and don’t want in relationships, what works well for me and what doesn’t, etc. I want a man who isn’t afraid to love out loud, who’s proud of who he is, who prioritizes his relationships with his family, and who thrives in a stable provider role in a relationship where a strong love language is acts of service, and it’s not like a compromise or a burden. I’m a lover girl through and through, and I enjoy feeling cared for, allowed to stay soft and grounded and feminine, have fun and laugh , spend quality time together and every day building a strong and openly communicative relationship with someone who holds the same values. 

Ideally you’d be able to/want to live at least part time in Wisconsin, as I have a close family unit here. I hate the winters though so could be very easily persuaded in spending them elsewhere!! But I do understand as well that if you’re established in a great career in a different state, it might not be in the cards to relocate, and it’s not a deal breaker. Open to discussion. Id want my partner to want us to be involved in each other’s worlds. I’m a big believer in extended families and sharing love. And in a perfect world, I’d love to have a child with a wonderful partner too. I would be more than happy with just one baby, as I feel that allows for 100% effort and attention to being the best I can be. But in a supportive and super loving relationship I would also be open to two, but truly no more than that, and thats non negotiable. for birthing, at least. I’m open to a partner who has kids already!

A bit about me, I’m currently (and for the past 6 years have been) a private nanny, and while I’ve loved the connections I’ve made I’m ready for this chapter to come to a close. I just signed a lease on my apartment and a contract in my position, so I won’t be relocating from where I live until spring 2027 if I do relocate. I’m an extremely loving partner and will be your best friend and cheerleader. I’m a big fan of quality time, physical touch, self care. I am plus sized - I’ve been on a big and very successful health journey over the past year and a half and have lost a lot of weight and improved my general health, and this is something I’d love to continue doing. Just having a partner who enjoys doing fun activities with me would be wonderful. Supportive in my goals. I love live theater, going to movies, seeing pretty places, going out to dinners and brunches, spending time with friends and family, writing from time to time. I’m interested in getting into Pilates and meditating! 

If you are connecting with this and think we might be a good match, and are INTENTIONAL about pursuing this - aka not being penpals for a week and then dropping off - please reach out with your age, location, a bit about you and what you’re looking for! I won’t respond to “hey” or “still looking?” or something that has no indication you read this specific post. It just takes up too much time and shows a lack of intentionality that says a lot. At least start with a few basics! Tell me why you’re a good match ☺️ thanks for reading!