u/Sharp-Candidate-8225

21 [M4F] #Germany seeking a long-term BDSM Dom for mutual exploration

Hello everyone,

I am a 21-year-old male from Rhineland-Palatinate, Germany, and I have been curious about BDSM for a long time. I don’t have any practical experience yet, which is why I would like to explore this slowly, in a trusting environment, and on a long-term basis with someone.

It is very important to me that we get to know each other properly first, talk a lot, and build a solid foundation before things get more intense.

I am particularly interested in the following:

Bondage / Restraints (especially hogtie with leather cuffs)

Submission (though I am open to the idea of switching)

Sensory Play (especially sensory deprivation – e.g., with masks, earplugs, etc.)

Being caged (ideally combined with bondage)

Straitjacket

Masks / Hoods

Latex

And that is by no means everything I am open to many other things as well.

Clear consent, safewords, and good aftercare are very important to me. My current hard limits are primarily scat and blood. I am still reflecting on further limits.

I am not looking for quick sexting sessions or one-night stands. Instead, I am looking for someone I can also get along with outside of kinks I would be happy to find a genuine friendship or more.

A little about me outside of the kink world I work as a programmer, I love riding my motorcycle, and I spend a lot of time with friends. In my free time, I enjoy coding or gaming. I tend to be introverted, but I become more open and extroverted once I feel comfortable with someone.

Ideally, you are from the local area (Rhineland-Palatinate), between 19 and 28 years old (if you are from further away, feel free to try to convince me), German-speaking, and interested in chatting in a relaxed way to see if the chemistry is right.

Very important You should want to take the dominant role (even if that primarily applies to our sessions outside of sessions, I prefer communication on equal terms).

If this appeals to you, please send me a message with a few lines about yourself, your age, where you are from, and what interests you about my kinks.

I look forward to hearing from you!

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Hello everyone,

I am a 21-year-old male from Rhineland-Palatinate, Germany, and I have been curious about BDSM for a long time. I don’t have any practical experience yet, which is why I would like to explore this slowly, in a trusting environment, and on a long-term basis with someone.

It is very important to me that we get to know each other properly first, talk a lot, and build a solid foundation before things get more intense.

I am particularly interested in the following:

Bondage / Restraints (especially hogtie with leather cuffs)

Submission (though I am open to the idea of switching)

Sensory Play (especially sensory deprivation – e.g., with masks, earplugs, etc.)

Being caged (ideally combined with bondage)

Straitjacket

Masks / Hoods

Latex

And that is by no means everything I am open to many other things as well.

Clear consent, safewords, and good aftercare are very important to me. My current hard limits are primarily scat and blood. I am still reflecting on further limits.

I am not looking for quick sexting sessions or one-night stands. Instead, I am looking for someone I can also get along with outside of kinks I would be happy to find a genuine friendship or more.

A little about me outside of the kink world I work as a programmer, I love riding my motorcycle, and I spend a lot of time with friends. In my free time, I enjoy coding or gaming. I tend to be introverted, but I become more open and extroverted once I feel comfortable with someone.

Ideally, you are from the local area (Rhineland-Palatinate), between 19 and 28 years old (if you are from further away, feel free to try to convince me), German-speaking, and interested in chatting in a relaxed way to see if the chemistry is right.

Very important You should want to take the dominant role (even if that primarily applies to our sessions outside of sessions, I prefer communication on equal terms).

If this appeals to you, please send me a message with a few lines about yourself, your age, where you are from, and what interests you about my kinks.

I look forward to hearing from you!