Are we all just good and bad actors ?
I’ve been thinking a lot lately about the line between a lifestyle dynamic and a professional one, and I’ve realized something that I simply cannot unsee.
I just can't feel a genuine dominant/submissive connection when money is involved in any way.
The moment money changes hands, the person paying simply becomes a client buying a service.
Usually it's a submissive buying a dominant to perform an act for them. Honestly, however you look at it, the buyer just bought a "ticket to the show," and the dominant is reduced to being a performer.
The "costumes" and setups always feel so poorly designed, and the pre-planned monologues are so shallow that the second you introduce any unplanned dialogue, the mask completely shatters.
It instantly exposes the actor as the exact opposite of the role they’re being paid to play.
Taking all of this into account, it really makes me wonder how rare true, pure dynamics actually are.
How many submissives are genuinely willing to surrender and obey unconditionally, versus how many just want to buy a theatrical show?
And on the flip side, how many dominants are truly leading, rather than just being led by the demands of the person with the wallet?