u/SkyeAirHostess

i’m not trying to be some fake scary domme… i’m more interested in the psychology of it… the control, the obedience, the little power shift when a man actually wants to prove he can listen… i like attention, pretty things, being spoiled, and men who understand that serving isn’t just about sending… it’s about manners, consistency, restraint and knowing when to do as he’s told… so i’m curious… what makes a good boy actually want to serve a woman properly? x

i’m curious because i’m still trying to understand the psychology of it properly… is findom mainly about the money itself… or is the exciting part more about the control, the permission, the obedience, the feeling of giving something up because a woman told you to? 😇… i don’t mean someone just randomly demanding things with no chemistry… that feels boring… i mean when there’s tension, teasing, manners, little rules, and a man actually enjoys proving he can listen… for the subs here, what makes it feel real to you… the amount, the act of sending, the praise after, or the feeling that she knows she has that effect on you? x

curious what this look does to a submissive man… does it make you want to behave… or does it make you forget your manners completely? 😇 x

Curious older woman here 😇

I keep seeing men say they like confident women, dominant women, older women, women who take control… but I’m curious how much of that is fantasy and how much is real.

Do submissive men genuinely enjoy being guided, teased, corrected and told what to do?

Or is it only fun until a woman actually expects you to behave? x