23 [M4F] #Europe/Online - Switch looking for a gentle Domme
Hello there, thank you for opening this post and taking some time to read it. If you get all of the way to the end you can pet my cat.
I'm a 23 years old guy from Italy and I'm a switch who would like to try to bring out his more sub side. I'm fairly inexperienced in being on the sub role, so I need you to be patient with me at first. But I can assure you that I'm 100% serious about this and I really want to have this kind of dynamic or even relationship (I want a domme, if you ever want to switch it's ok but that's not my primary interest).
I'm quite shy, especially on opening up and being the center of the play but I'd like to try and see how that goes. I'm also a virgin, if that matters.
I lean more towards a gentle and caring type but I don't mind a bit of strictness. I like the idea of tasks and more generally I like the idea of pleasing and giving you a good time (I'm a bit of a service sub, or so I think). I don't want it to be completed one sided tho, I want to be praised and have fun with you.
I'm open to share pics and verify each other after some chat, mutual attraction is important in this (but getting out a pic for everyone to see it feels kinda meh, I prefer to chat a bit and wait until a bit of trust is built before sending any).
I'm not into humiliation or degradation, chastity, pain, cbt, feminization, forced bi and the more extreme stuff.
Consent and good communication are really important to me and that reflects with my general interests too.
Your experience is not important, as long as we can have a clear and honest communication.
For the sfw stuff I'd prefer to chat and get to know each other like that, but here is some more general stuff: I go to the gym, I'm quite the boring nerd, I play videogames, watch series, movies, random youtube essays, a bit of everything as long as I find it interesting really.
As for my looks I'd say that I'm pretty average, 180cm tall, not quite fit but I'm working on it (and it would be good if you helped me with that), I'm quite hairy overall but I try to keep the important areas well trimmed, short brown hair and brown eyes.
Now for what I'm looking for in general terms: cis woman, I'm more inclined towards a medium/fit physique (not really into the more plus sized, sorry), doesn't have other subs, and takes care of herself. We don't need to have much in common but we'd need to being able to hold some sort of conversation, so I'd like someone who's at least a bit invested in our chatting.
Please don't reach out with an "hi", try to say something about yourself or why you decided to write to me.
I'm more than ok with fellow switches too.
I understand that we also have a life outside of this, I don't expect nor I want a 24/7 kind of dynamic but I like the daily talks and just getting random text (or surprises) during the day.
I prefer someone in the European time zone, I think it works better with my schedule (if we have a bit time difference but you think that we could make it work I'm ok with that. I just don't want to do a lot of mental gymnastics around what time we can chat, nor messing up with my sleep schedule). This will be mainly online but there might be a chance to meet each other with the right person.
I know that most of the Dommes here are looking for a romantic relationship, I'm not against that but I'd prefer to start as friends and see if things could work first. I think that falling in love and finding out the right person for you takes a LOT of time and a LOT of work, I don't think it's something you can just decide that it'll be there.
So this is it, I hope to hear from you soon and if that doesn't happen then, I hope you'll find what you're looking for here.