u/Snoo-43801

As the headline states, I'm quite green to Femdom in general and want to find a person comfortable to train someone from scratch. I'm quite obedient but I have my moments,

I'm a blank canvas you can paint in any color. I'm looking for a relationship that is long term if possible, I will treat you as you wish but i will remain loyal to you and I hope it can be mutual, if not please be direct and honest with me, and I will make a decision if I'm comfortable with that reality or not.

I have hobbies outside of this, I'm a gamer and I just started going back to the gym, I want to look my best so mommy / Domme dearest can be proud of her sub always.

I am quite needy, I get antsy when the replies are cold or infrequent, I enjoy attention and enjoy giving you attention as well, I use dramatic language so if it's annoying let me know!

In terms of sexual limit testing I have 0 experience so we can try a few things (or many things) and I'll let you know what I'm comfortable with, firstly we must begin with what mommy likes so I don't waste your precious time!

Aside from the sexual aspect I'm also looking for just someone to talk to it doesn't always have to be sexual (if you want it to be Im down for it) but if the day is rough I want to be that good boy that sits in your lap and comforts you, being your safe space to be yourself, (and your outlet to vent later teehee)

For context, I'm 6 ft 2 (189cm) and as of today 150kg (though I intend to drop to 120 by December) if you're not okay with this, I highly suggest you don't DM me! I'm a work in progress so it will take a lot of motivation and consistency for me to achieve your sub dreams.

For context I'm drawing a hard line at:

Blood play

Scat

Findom

Demoralising / hurtful teasing

Prolapse

Cheating / NTR / Cuck

I'm nervous but want to try:

Anal play

Sounding

Kenneling

I can tolerate golden showers though am hesitant

Pegging

Anything with armpits?!?!?!

Rimming (both for you and for me)

I'm definitely into:

Face sitting

Feet worship (though I'm quite awkward and bad)

Queening

Standard sex package (+ oral)

Words of affirmation with light teasing

Dirty talk

Your love and attention ❤️

I'm a crazy yapper so uhh.. by the time you send 2 replies I would've sent 5. And I have been told I'm golden retriever energy.

Hygiene is important! For you and for me.

I also function very well with words of affirmation, positivity makes me so things a lot easier and keeps me motivated to be my best, so if you think you have what it takes to make me yours please DM me :)

Hi. I'm very new to Femdom and would like someone that can possibly guide me through the process of discovery, I don't expect you to be perfect, we can learn together or if you're established I welcome a thorough education on your preferences and expectations. I am open to meeting irl but there has to be a genuine connection established. I'm not looking to share my Domme it's a proper personal relationship! Thank you for reading and if you're interested DM me!

As the title might give off. I'm not to say small, but I'm considered slightly below average in length and it's a genuine concern for me at times. Just want to know your experiences / preferences so I can temper mine 😬. I don't mind being teased about it in all honesty but it's such a mental block worrying I can't satisfy my domme in that department.

I don't quite understand it, I'm a tall bulky guy sitting at 6 feet 2 inches, but I have the desire to be dominated and be an obedient good boy for a mommy "shorter" than me that id probably get down on my knees a little bit too eagerly.

Something about being "below" (in this context I mean under? I guess) a woman is just such a joyous thrill and it simply makes me smile ear to ear.

I want nothing more than to do anything you want and cuddle you for days on end until you've had enough!!

May all the Dommes and Subs of this Reddit find their other half and enjoy as we wind down the wavey road known as life.

Hey everyone I'm new here and id like to wish everyone a good timezone! As the title puts out. I've been in a few relationships where the expectation was I was supposed to be the "Dom/top/decision maker" therefore I've never got to explore the more submissive side of life. I'd love to hear subs/Dom's experience on how they began their journey figuring it out. Also can you point me to where it is appropriate to look for a Dom? My country is pretty conservative and I can be punished (physical/jail/confiscation of devices) and that's not the type of "punishment" that I mean to look for 😆