47 (M4F) #Montana looking for long-term DD/spanking relationship
I feel like I've been searching for a special type of relationship all my life and I often think about just giving up and settling for a standard "vanilla" relationship but the truth is I would feel like I'm living a lie so here I am trying again, no matter how fruitless the search seems to be.
I am seeking a woman for an old-fashioned taken in hand/domestic discipline relationship. This is something I've known I wanted since I was a teenager. Something about spanking has fascinated me since I was very young but I was never given such discipline and as I grew older I felt I missed out on something important and I've wanted ever since to provide it for someone who needs it. I am a calm, patient man, slow to anger but I do not like sassiness or brattiness or drama or rudeness to others and I will spank to correct those missteps. I believe very much in aftercare and will always apply that after you've been across my lap. I am a highly sensitive personality so I feel things more strongly than most. This means sometimes the world brings me down hard and others tend to think I'm antisocial when in fact I have so much going on internally that I often disappear into my own head. I am a Christian man and I strive to live by the principles Jesus taught. I don't always succeed but I do try. I'm a huge film buff and have a collection of movies from all across the world and I'm a big Star Trek fan.
As for the woman I'm seeking, I want someone who is empathetic, who cares about others and is kind and nurturing. I study bears independently and write about them and so I spend a lot of time outdoors and in the mountains and I want someone I can take to my favorite wilderness spots and teach her to see what I see; someone who is intellectual, curious about the world around her and eager to learn more about it. If I had to be very picky, I would like a woman who was spanked by her father and who wants her husband to continue providing that discipline but at the very least I want someone who believes in spanking and understands the value and the benefits of being put over the knee. Please be drama free and spiritually minded. I do prefer someone younger than me because it fits the dynamic but similar age is okay.
Please understand that spanking means more to me than just discipline. I view it as one of the greatest expressions of love one person can give to another but I also enjoy it for play and for sex and would like to explore that as well.
I don't care where you are located or what country you're from, if there's a rare, amazing woman out there somewhere that this describes, please feel free to message me and let's talk.