u/SouthwesternExplorer

I’m a 48 yr old professional in kerrville. Not really looking for a relationship but just a fun, blowing off steam friendship with benefits with any open wives in the area or wives who need to blow off steam while at work. Nothing serious. But something to ignite the wild side in you. I’m 6’ 4”, broad shouldered, wide chested, well groomed trimmed beard and white. PM me if interested. Any husbands who want to share their wives: I’m open to that as well and open to chatting.

I hear a lot about “once you go black” etc and things like “the BNWO” and “black owned or converted” I know much of that is porn fantasy but since it seems to be growing in it’s impact and seems to be everywhere, is porn making it a reality too? How real is it becoming? Is any of it true?

Anyone ever introduce their wife to men you know are skilled seducers or players in the hopes that there might be a spark between the two and that he might work his magic behind the scenes and seduce her?

Weird long question...

I have a best female friend who is married and only been with her husband physically. They were high school sweethearts. She and I are very close. I'm heterosexual but she treats me kind of like a weird mix of gay friend, brother, and work husband. It's complicated. Especially for me since I do find her attractive.

Early on she confessed to me that her husband had a fantasy of seeing her with other men. She confessed to me so I could explain why a husband would want that. I did my best. There were a few times later on over the past two decades that she’s thought about going to a swinger club with him just to look as a birthday present and toyed with other ideas that float along the edge of hotwifing without actually taking the plunge. It gradually turned into a private joke that anytime he saw someone he thought was super handsome, he’d say he can be our “third.”

Well fast forward to about a month ago. They’ve moved out of the country and now live the bohemian life of couples without kids or pets. Another couple moved into their hotel for a bit. This man who is about 15 years younger hit on her hard in front of her husband there. He was visiting from Europe with his girlfriend and every woman who staid at the hotel wanted to have his baby. She thought he was hot AF too and she usually is turned on by personalities not looks.

Well he zeroed in in her and complimented her. She claims she didn’t play the game but confessed to me that inside was turned on all the same. He and gf left though for Europe again. I joked with her that she missed her chance for a threesome. She laughed it off but was very flattered he found her attractive. She’s feeling her age a bit. Mid 40’s. Anyway, I made a joke AI pic of her and him posing together- not sexually- and she flipped. She said it was funny but she was going to delete it because hubby would be mad. But she confessed that she blushed. I wonder if she did delete it?

My question is for hotwives on here: if he comes back, do you think she may head down the road to at last becoming a hotwife? And if so, how can I help?

Anyone’s wife obviously attracted to someone you’d never think she’d be attracted to or to someone you can’t stand?