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Serious question for women. How do you guys feel about manscapping? Is it a must, not a big deal? Or do you prefer a man with natural hair down there?

Share what is the best toys you bought for the bedroom that improved your sex life. Mention your gender and what has benefited you and what benefited your spouse.

Serious question. I’m 38M, wife is 35F. In my 20s I could last around 10 minutes PIV pretty consistently. Since hitting my 30s, that’s changed a lot — now it can be as short as 3 minutes even when I’m trying to hold back.

Is this normal with age? I’ve put on a few pounds over the years, so I’m wondering if that’s part of it too. Just feels like my stamina has dropped off and I’m curious what others’ experiences have been.

38M and she is 35F. Expecting our first child in a few weeks. Sex has been difficult and she doesn't have much desire. Today I told her I loved her and she responded with I'll suck your dick tonight. I smiled and said OK, I’ll take a shower before bed. I then told her lately you've been very generous with the blowjobs without me even asking and she responded and said because I feel bad that sex is uncomfortable and I want to make sure you're taking care of. I am getting them 2-3 a week unprompted. I just have to be showered. We've been playing this game now and we time how long it takes her to blow me. A year ago, it would take her 7-10 mins, but she has become such a pro and its usually between 3-5 mins. Every time I am done, she will ask what my timer says on my phone and I tell her. The more she gets closer to 3 minutes, the more she gets excited and wants to beat her time the next time which then turns into more BJ's.