40 [M4F] #online #South England- looking for my new sub
As a Dom, one of my goals is to hold up a mirror so that you can see yourself as you truly are, a beautiful, validated, and valued submissive. You will be seen, and you will thrive in our D/s dynamic.
I am looking for a unique woman ( single or partnered) who truly enjoys being submissive, but she is looking for more. You will crave being accountable, the mere thought of which makes your body tingle. You will enjoy the act of learning how to please your partner in the way he most enjoys. You will further have a high kink for praise, but not just a “good girl” (although that will work). I mean for true praise that you have earned because you have made me proud to be your Dom. You must also enjoy degradation, humiliation and begging to cum as I remind you how much of a slut you are for being turned on by all the dirty things I do to you or ask you to do for me. You must also love orgasm denial, sensory deprivation, power exchange, CNC, and restraint play. You may not have done these, but you have a deep curiosity to explore, learn, and experience your kink to the full extent. You will also be looking for daily routines, underwear, and/ or clothing/appearance choices ( for discussion around practicality), daily tasks, check-ins, daily assignments, etc. These will fit within agreed limits, time allowances, and vanilla commitments.
I believe that a D/s relationship is like a dance, where the Dom leads and sub follows. Your submission will need to be earned, I view it as a gift that can't be demanded, but when given, it is so precious and beautiful. Your submission will, therefore, never be taken lightly, but equally, my time and investment in you as a Dom will need to be appreciated and valued.
If you are slightly possessive and needy, you will be my favourite Oreo biscuit. I like frequent communication, which is consistency and daily. Im not looking to rush this, for me a dynamic is more than just sex, as I want a sub who can hold a conversation, who wants to know me and allow our dynamic to mesh with daily life. Having a sense of humour is a must. I am looking to start slowly and build a connection built on trust, intimacy, and security.
You may be single or partnered wanting to explore your submissive side, but you must want something authentic that focuses on you as a whole - whether that is physical, emotional, psychological, or kink wellbeing. I am not looking for a quickie or one night stand. I am looking for an intentional intimate emotional connection built on mutual respect and trust for our roles.
I am a firm but kind-hearted, disciplined man who has his own business. I am driven and mission focused, and I am looking for a new submissive girl who I can mentor, coach, and train. I am pastoral in nature, so leadership and care come naturally to me. I have a desire to lead through power exchange. Let's explore if we are a match. I have many hobbies and interests that I would be happy to discuss and share with you as we get to know each other. You will need to be comfortable with me having a vanilla partner who is aware of my dominant kink needs. I am not looking to change this situation but merely to enhance my D/s dynamic experience. I will not be looking to change your situation either if you are partnered.
Intrigued? Come say hi. Say what your favourite song is that you listen to when you feel like you want to let your hair down or what song best fits your kink. Thanks for reading.