u/Specialist-Gap8649

Hello out there. I'm a 55 year old guy, healthy, fit, handsome, not balding but definitely grey. I'm employed, responsible, live alone, divorced, and not attached to anyone else. I have friends, a social life, don't abuse alcohol or drugs and a pretty fun guy. I like going to concerts, drag shows, kink events, travel, stay physically active and I'm looking for a woman for something deeply connected. Really.. I am not looking for a NSA hookup and I am a super sincere person even if I am kinky af and have been exploring my bisexual side that comes out through drag and expressing my feminine side. I'm a good looking man and my femme side is pretty hot actually.

I was having a discussion at celebration last night with one of my good friends. She told me that she's quit dating because she keeps finding men wanting a "nurse or a purse" and that really resonated with me. I'm looking for someone like myself who wants an equal partner who shows up, present, is willing to grow and talk through all the rough parts of any relationship.

A rough part that I've had to grow through has been my sexuality and desires and its been a lot of growth. I suppose I identify as bisexual, yet very heteroromantic. I want a woman partner (cisgender to clarify). I'm not especially into solo ENM or polyamory myself, more like monogamous-ish. A partnership where whatever we do is based on inclusion, putting us first, and if we ever did something with another person or couple we would only go there in a way that everyone feels they matter and are cared about. I feel like this part is getting ahead of things because I am ultimately looking for my best friend, lover and partner and if monogamy was the default I'd be good with that much more than open.

I think I am very kink educated and open. A very caring person, in touch with my emotions instead of just a default masc coded stoicism or anger, and I'd like to meet my person.

So if you are a single woman over the age of forty, bi-pan... maybe even hetero but have a thing for guys like me. You have the time and effort to engage in building a relationship, and you're like me: stable life, healthy and looking for me.. please say hello.

I am not looking for long distance or online only please. Please be in the Denver area.

Hello out there. I'm a 55 year old guy, healthy, fit, handsome, not balding but definitely grey. I'm employed, responsible, live alone, divorced, and not attached to anyone else. I have friends, a social life, don't abuse alcohol or drugs and a pretty fun guy. I like going to concerts, drag shows, kink events, travel, stay physically active and I'm looking for a woman for something deeply connected. Really.. I am not looking for a NSA hookup and I am a super sincere person even if I am kinky af and have been exploring my bisexual side that comes out through drag and expressing my feminine side. I'm a good looking man and my femme side is pretty hot actually.

I was having a discussion at celebration last night with one of my good friends. She told me that she's quit dating because she keeps finding men wanting a "nurse or a purse" and that really resonated with me. I'm looking for someone like myself who wants an equal partner who shows up, present, is willing to grow and talk through all the rough parts of any relationship.

A rough part that I've had to grow through has been my sexuality and desires and its been a lot of growth. I suppose I identify as bisexual, yet very heteroromantic. I want a woman partner (cisgender to clarify). I'm not especially into solo ENM or polyamory myself, more like monogamous-ish. A partnership where whatever we do is based on inclusion, putting us first, and if we ever did something with another person or couple we would only go there in a way that everyone feels they matter and are cared about. I feel like this part is getting ahead of things because I am ultimately looking for my best friend, lover and partner and if monogamy was the default I'd be good with that much more than open.

I think I am very kink educated and open. A very caring person, in touch with my emotions instead of just a default masc coded stoicism or anger, and I'd like to meet my person.

So if you are a single woman over the age of forty, bi-pan... maybe even hetero but have a thing for guys like me. You have the time and effort to engage in building a relationship, and you're like me: stable life, healthy and looking for me.. please say hello.

Hello out there. I'm a 55 year old guy, healthy, fit, handsome, not balding but definitely grey. I'm employed, responsible, live alone, divorced, and not attached to anyone else. I have friends, a social life, don't abuse alcohol or drugs and a pretty fun guy. I like going to concerts, drag shows, kink events, travel, stay physically active and I'm looking for a woman for something deeply connected. Really.. I am not looking for a NSA hookup and I am a super sincere person even if I am kinky af and have been exploring my bisexual side that comes out through drag and expressing my feminine side. I'm a good looking man and my femme side is pretty hot actually.

I was having a discussion at celebration last night with one of my good friends. She told me that she's quit dating because she keeps finding men wanting a "nurse or a purse" and that really resonated with me. I'm looking for someone like myself who wants an equal partner who shows up, present, is willing to grow and talk through all the rough parts of any relationship.

A rough part that I've had to grow through has been my sexuality and desires and its been a lot of growth. I suppose I identify as bisexual, yet very heteroromantic. I want a woman partner (cisgender to clarify). I'm not especially into solo ENM or polyamory myself, more like monogamous-ish. A partnership where whatever we do is based on inclusion, putting us first, and if we ever did something with another person or couple we would only go there in a way that everyone feels they matter and are cared about. I feel like this part is getting ahead of things because I am ultimately looking for my best friend, lover and partner and if monogamy was the default I'd be good with that much more than open.

I think I am very kink educated and open. A very caring person, in touch with my emotions instead of just a default masc coded stoicism or anger, and I'd like to meet my person.

So if you are a single woman over the age of forty, bi-pan... maybe even hetero but have a thing for guys like me. You have the time and effort to engage in building a relationship, and you're like me: stable life, healthy and looking for me.. please say hello.

Hey there. I'm looking for a single guy like myself, mature, fit, DDF, healthy, responsible. Not into anonymous or party stuff. A friend to hang out with as well as someone to play privately. Bisexual.

Here's the rub: in public I am a good looking clean cut, slim guy who looks "straight". In private I love crossdressing, drag, being femme. That means dresses, heels, makeup, lingerie, wigs... the works. and while I am a guy, I do it pretty well. I share pics in DMs for pics.

I lean to the bottom sub role with a masculine guy. Would consider more versatile for someone who is femme and puts that same effort into it as me.

I am 55, 5'11", 170, 6" cut, DDF, tested regularly and recently. I live in Capitol Hill, am able to host and want a FWB who can host also. We are adults. lets be friends and have fun

Hey there. I'm looking for a single guy like myself, mature, fit, DDF, healthy, responsible. Not into anonymous or party stuff. A friend to hang out with as well as someone to play privately. Bisexual.

Here's the rub: in public I am a good looking clean cut, slim guy who looks "straight". In private I love crossdressing, drag, being femme. That means dresses, heels, makeup, lingerie, wigs... the works. and while I am a guy, I do it pretty well. I share pics in DMs for pics.

I lean to the bottom sub role with a masculine guy. Would consider more versatile for someone who is femme and puts that same effort into it as me.

I am 55, 5'11", 170, 6" cut, DDF, tested regularly and recently. I live in Capitol Hill, am able to host and want a FWB who can host also. We are adults. lets be friends and have fun

I'm looking for a guy similar to myself, Single, bisexual, DDF, stable life with a job-place-transportation etc, out or downlow, (im somewhere in between) fit, healthy, smart and fun.

Where we are slightly different is that you like being the Top, I like being the bottom. You also like your guy pretty.

I love to dress, makeup, wigs, lingerie, heels, femme and while I am still a guy, I do it pretty well.

very kink friendly, safe-sane-consensual. I am tested regularly, negative for any infections, and take my health seriously. You too!

my stats: 55, 5'11", 170, smooth, 6" cut, great legs and ass. You between 45-60.

We can both host, hang out and do guy stuff, and also play well together in the naughty ways.

HMU with your age, name, location in the city and lets get a coffee or a drink soon. Pics 4 pics.

I'm looking for a guy similar to myself, Single, bisexual, DDF, stable life with a job-place-transportation etc, out or downlow, (im somewhere in between) fit, healthy, smart and fun.

Where we are slightly different is that you like being the Top, I like being the bottom. You also like your guy pretty.

I love to dress, makeup, wigs, lingerie, heels, femme and while I am still a guy, I do it pretty well.

very kink friendly, safe-sane-consensual. I am tested regularly, negative for any infections, and take my health seriously. You too!

my stats: 55, 5'11", 170, smooth, 6" cut, great legs and ass. You between 45-60.

We can both host, hang out and do guy stuff, and also play well together in the naughty ways.

HMU with your age, name, location in the city and lets get a coffee or a drink soon. Pics 4 pics.

Trying to date as a man who is not hetero-normative has been difficult. If a label is something I must have then I would call myself a bisexual-gynesexual, sub-leaning switch. I've built a good life post-divorce: responsible, stable, social. I have friends, am blessed with health and fitness, a good therapist, volunteer, no trouble being present or engaging. My people wonder why am I still single? Its not for lack of looking.

I've looked for her in art events, social and active groups: bicycling, rollerskating, volunteering, and some of the spicier places such as kinky socials. Drag shows, comedy, summer patio drinks, cafes, live music: electronic, dreampop, shoegaze. I know my interests are not my identity. I also know that an overlap in sharing them matters for the relationship that I want; a deep friendship, a red-hot sexual attraction, a romance that simmers, a mutual trust where we are confident we're battling the monsters we will encounter for one another.

I am a very good looking mature man. My activity level is such that most of my friends are in their late 30s-40s. I'm looking for equality as a foundation of relationship, a cisgendered woman, 40+, educated, empathetic, and stable in life. Deep Self Awareness: understanding motivations, recognizing old wounds, communicating well, capable of planning, collaborating to repair, staying allies first. My firm boundaries are the chaos of substance abuse, inattention to mental and physical health, lack of empathy for others.

I have a masculine side and a feminine side and affection for switching in power exchange. I can present as your handsome man or your slinky femme. I'm capable of being your calm, controlled Dominant or compliant, enthusiastic submissive in either presentation. I feel that sexuality and kinks are where every person is most vulnerable. I want to explore these with someone able to stay present, gaze into each other and not flinch. I've been a serial monogamist, considerate of a possibility towards inclusive "monogamous-ish". I'm not a swinger, interested in cucking, cuckqueening, or using people. I'm not including a kinklist as I'm not fixated on acts, I'm interested in fixating on the person, knowing you. I'd enthusiastically collaborate on a list later though.

I'm in Denver, CO and looking for you locally because I want to meet you sooner not later. I appreciate your first message to be your name, your location in the city, an exchange of pictures in DMs because attraction and trust are real factors. I am conscientious of the safety disparity of a woman meeting a stranger. There are many wonderful public places to have a first meet. Single only please. I am looking for my partner not a shiny distraction.

I'm a sincere, fit, conventionally great looking man. Mature, responsible, kind, Single. Looking for a woman of similar traits and compatibility for a romantic LTR. I'm tall, lean, clean shaven, full head of graying hair and very conscientious. Please be local and not looking for transactional.