u/Spiritual-Kick-8013

26 {M4F} #ATL - The plot twist none of us planned for

26 married white male. Definitely the younger side of this community, shocking, I know. May be younger in age, but certainly have acquired enough experience in life to earn some consideration here 🤣

I don’t need someone to come save me from any sort of horrible life I need to hide from. Life’s good, just stale. But hey, every post here says the same shit. “Not looking to blow anyone’s life up - including my own, looking for connection, spark, fun…” blah blah blah. We know, we’re all here for the same thing. What makes you different? Or rather me in this case.

A little about me: 5’10, blue eyes brown hair, blue collar and prior military so in shape just not a jarhead counting macros pushing the nutritional value of a raisin down your throat 24/7, witty dark sense of humor, adventurous, I love motorcycles tattoos and maybe a slight amount of chaos in the right sense. Prior military, Prior entrepreneur, current superintendent for very large construction work. Depending on who you ask I’m basically the biggest walking red flag on paper. But hey, some of the best stories come from the most unforeseen beginnings right? Open to in person and online, what ever grows between us, just here for the ride.

I’m interested in a female,, first and foremost. I didn’t think I really needed to hon in on that but here we are. Don’t have too much preference on age or race, I gotta thing for older woman just the same so we’re here for the game over here hun. I prefer a woman in reasonable shape, I like a little thickness to love on, just the right amount. Other than that just be able to hold a conversation. Genuinely. That’s it’s,,, a little bit of eye batting, a good conversation, maybe some bad intentions and the worlds full of possibilities.

I prefer someone more open and outgoing in the bedroom. Never hate on a good ole fashion pillow princess but I prefer some more excitement.

If you’ve made it through this ungodly lengthy spiel, you just may be who I’m looking for. Reach out and let’s chat, get to know each other!

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u/Spiritual-Kick-8013 — 9 days ago

26 {M4F} #Georgia #ATL Autopilot Is Boring. I’m Not.

26, married, not here to cry about my relationship or pretend my life is a tragic indie film. It’s fine. Stable. Predictable. And that’s exactly the issue — I’m too young to feel like I’m living the same Tuesday on repeat.

I’m driven, grounded, and on the younger side of this lifestyle, but lately it feels like I’m coasting. Same routines. Same conversations. Same version of myself showing up every day like a well‑trained NPC. I’m not looking to blow up anyone’s life — including mine — but I am looking for something that actually wakes me up.

Not interested in a 48‑hour texting sprint that dies faster than a New Year’s resolution. I want consistency. Depth. Someone who can hold a conversation, throw a little challenge my way, make me crave their touch like a junkie at a crack festival and just maybe build something that feels real — whether it stays online or eventually steps into the real world.

About me:
5’10, average/athletic build. Prior military, entrepreneur, currently blue‑collar so I stay in shape without being one of those guys who talks about macros like it’s a personality. Dark hair, blue eyes, tattoos, motorcycles — basically the starter pack your parents always warned you about. Intelligent, easygoing, sarcastic in a way that’s probably fun unless you’re sensitive. High libido, matters to the audience it’s intended for.

What I’m looking for:
Someone who can actually talk. Someone curious, witty, attractive, and able to keep up. I’m not chasing chaos or drama — I’m chasing that spark you get when someone sees a version of you your everyday life doesn’t bother to notice.

If you read this and felt a little jolt — yeah, that one — then you already know what to do.

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u/Spiritual-Kick-8013 — 10 days ago

26 M4F #Athens - Available TH-SU

26 white male near Athens, have some availability from Thursday thru Sunday afternoon. Don’t mind meeting somewhere or traveling with moderation. If interested, would love to chat!

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u/Spiritual-Kick-8013 — 10 days ago

26 {M4F} #Georgia ATL - Stuck on autopilot

26 M married here. I’m not here to complain about my relationship or pretend my life is falling apart. It’s not. Things are stable, predictable, and honestly… that’s part of the problem.

I’m part of the younger side of this lifestyle , driven, and pretty grounded, but lately it feels like I’m moving through my days on autopilot. Same conversations, same routines, same version of myself showing up over and over getting the same versions of others over and over. I’m not looking to blow up anyone’s life — including my own — but I am looking for something that wakes me up a little.

I’m not interested in a two‑day text fest that dies as fast as it starts. I want something consistent. Something with depth. Someone who can actually hold a conversation, challenge me a little, and build a connection that feels real — whether that stays online or eventually becomes something more. Online or IRL, willing to meet up.

About me: 5’10, average build, prior military and entrepreneur, current blue collar so in shape but not insanely ripped. Intelligent, easy going, wicked sense of humor. Dark hair, blue eyes, tattoos, motorcycles - basically all the things you’ve ever been warned to stay away from HA.

Looking for someone who can hold a conversation and is reasonably attractive lol that’s basically it. Have a sense of humor, be able to hang in a conversation, I like submissive women, I do have a very active sex drive, but just having sex with out connection doesn’t satisfy my need.

I’m not chasing drama. I’m not chasing chaos. I’m chasing that spark you get when you meet someone who sees you in a way your day‑to‑day life doesn’t.

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u/Spiritual-Kick-8013 — 11 days ago

Has anyone actually met up with someone from this community???

Seems to be mostly scamming or selling OF, am I wrong?🤣

Disclaimer: pretty new to the thread, don’t keep up all that much with it. But from what I do see..

EDIT: I was referring to men meeting women, not two bi/gay men. I guess I should’ve specified this ,,, oops

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u/Spiritual-Kick-8013 — 12 days ago

26 M married here. I’m not here to complain about my relationship or pretend my life is falling apart. It’s not. Things are stable, predictable, and honestly… that’s part of the problem.

I’m part of the younger side of this lifestyle , driven, and pretty grounded, but lately it feels like I’m moving through my days on autopilot. Same conversations, same routines, same version of myself showing up over and over getting the same versions of others over and over. I’m not looking to blow up anyone’s life — including my own — but I am looking for something that wakes me up a little.

I’m not interested in a two‑day text fest that dies as fast as it starts. I want something consistent. Something with depth. Someone who can actually hold a conversation, challenge me a little, and build a connection that feels real — whether that stays online or eventually becomes something more. Online or IRL, willing to meet up.

About me: 5’10, average build, prior military and entrepreneur, current blue collar so in shape but not insanely ripped. Intelligent, easy going, wicked sense of humor. Dark hair, blue eyes, tattoos, motorcycles - basically all the things you’ve ever been warned to stay away from HA.

Looking for someone who can hold a conversation and is reasonably attractive lol that’s basically it. Have a sense of humor, be able to hang in a conversation, I like submissive women, I do have a very active sex drive, but just having sex with out connection doesn’t satisfy my need.

I’m not chasing drama. I’m not chasing chaos. I’m chasing that spark you get when you meet someone who sees you in a way your day‑to‑day life doesn’t.

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u/Spiritual-Kick-8013 — 17 days ago