u/TheSlav87

39 [M4F] #LondonON

Hello and thank you for stopping by :)

Some things to clear up right away:

• If you recognize as a “Goddess” or a “Switch”, I’m not interested.

• Not looking for hookups, I can get attached too easily and value a meaningful relationship.

• I'm very much monogamous and Demi-sexual. I’m okay with my girl being with another girl(I don’t have to be involved, but I have to be present). I am not okay with other men involved physically in anyway with my girl.

• I am not into polygamy or “open relationships”. I just want 1 partner, that’s it. So, stop bothering me.

• I do not want to meet just anyone on here for a quick hook up or to dominate you. I'm looking for something real, meaningful, serious and a relationship over "hook-ups" or "casual dating".

• I have a social life and work outside my Kinky and Dominate side, so someone who wants more than sex and likes being social together.

• I do not want **ANY** online relationships of any kind.

• I not do distant relationships.

**What I’m after:**
I am a Dom-Daddy, but one who wishes a submissive to find a feeling of strength from wanting to kneel and offer your submission, in return you will find that place where you are held and shown that care and affection when you have done well and made your Master proud in what ever way that may end up being. Both, with me or even something you have had to overcome in your day to day....Just as much as you will find that disappointment will find you punished in a place where your tears mean very little.. I am looking for something built on trust and honesty from the start, so if you would like to find something real, and something lasting where you can enjoy the feeling of pleasure from truly being collard and having a place to call home in your ownership.

**What I want and need:**
Please read and understand my needs, wants, agreements, etc in an ideal sub/little/partner/match:
I need someone who like me is extremely needy of their partner and likes constant attention from them, I like a girl that is clingy.
You LOVE being with and around their Daddy all the time, unless either of us are working.
I like to text and message all day, so if you can’t give back the same amount of attention, we won’t work :/
I like and need consistency, a **LOT**.
I don’t like my girl hanging out with other men alone, unless it’s family. I can get jealous due to some bad ex-partner, I’m sorry I’m not perfect. I don’t hang out with women period, I really feel like that is not ok to do when you are with someone.
I can be possessive of what’s mine. I’m putting it out there so you are aware and can’t handle that. I actually like my girl being possessive and territorial of me, it makes me feel like that person cares about me, gives a shit and it excites me sexually.

**How it all started:**
Well, it started years ago when I was discovering who I really am and how I didn't realize why I was the way I am. I got introduced into BDSM/DDlg with a girl I was seeing who I didn't know was into BDSM, Dom/sub or DDlg lifestyle. She brought the Daddy in me first; the caring, affectionate, loving and protective side while we dated. Later on we went even further by exploring what she enjoyed…..being spanked and other forms of impact play, breath play, hair pulling, anal play, nipple/breast play, humiliation/degradation, etc….so many kinks to list and my Kinks and fetishes started to open up. Then we started to explore the role playing....I found out I enjoyed Taboo sex like Father/daughter and Daddy/little girl and everything to do with it. I loved that I was able to explore the humiliation/degradation aspects of BDSM. From all that, I also learned to provide aftercare for my partner when the sessions were long and/or rough. Me being someone that is extremely affectionate, caring and emotional person, I tend to care a lot about **MY person**, her mental health and wellbeing.

Fetishes & Kinks:
Please message or DM me for a full list of my Fetishes & Kinks :)

**About me:**
I was born in ex-Yugoslavia close during the start of the war in the 90’s, my family fled to Germany where we lived for some years until we applied for Canadian residency. In ‘99 me and my family moved to Ontario to settle here in London eventually and get Canadian citizenship. I recently started working for the government and I am truly humbled with my job. When I am dating and with someone, I only care about my partner and they come first above everything else and of course my pup. European people are family oriented and care more for them on a different level than North Americans Iv’e noticed. Maybe that’s where my “Daddy” side in the Daddy-Dom comes from? Lol.

== My BDSM Test ==
100% Dominant
25% Submissive

== My roles ==
100% Master/Mistress
100% Degrader
100% Sadist
100% Caregiver
53% Brat Tamer
43% Rigger
25% Brat
18% Hunter
18% Pet Owner
13% Pet
0% Rope Bunny
0% Slave
0% Degradee
0% Masochist
0% Little
0% Prey

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u/TheSlav87 — 1 day ago

39 [M4F] #London, ON - Dominant seeking a Sub LTR

Hello and thank you for stopping by :)

Some things to clear up right away:

• If you recognize as a “Goddess” or a “Switch”, I’m not interested.

• Not looking for hookups, I can get attached too easily and value a meaningful relationship.

• I'm very much monogamous and Demi-sexual. I’m okay with my girl being with another girl(I don’t have to be involved, but I have to be present). I am not okay with other men involved physically in anyway with my girl.

• I am not into polygamy or “open relationships”. I just want 1 partner, that’s it. So, stop bothering me.

• I do not want to meet just anyone on here for a quick hook up or to dominate you. I'm looking for something real, meaningful, serious and a relationship over "hook-ups" or "casual dating".

• I have a social life and work outside my Kinky and Dominate side, so someone who wants more than sex and likes being social together.

• I do not want **ANY** online relationships of any kind.

• I not do distant relationships.

**What I’m after:**
I am a Dom-Daddy, but one who wishes a submissive to find a feeling of strength from wanting to kneel and offer your submission, in return you will find that place where you are held and shown that care and affection when you have done well and made your Master proud in what ever way that may end up being. Both, with me or even something you have had to overcome in your day to day....Just as much as you will find that disappointment will find you punished in a place where your tears mean very little.. I am looking for something built on trust and honesty from the start, so if you would like to find something real, and something lasting where you can enjoy the feeling of pleasure from truly being collard and having a place to call home in your ownership.

**What I want and need:**
Please read and understand my needs, wants, agreements, etc in an ideal sub/little/partner/match:
I need someone who like me is extremely needy of their partner and likes constant attention from them, I like a girl that is clingy.
You LOVE being with and around their Daddy all the time, unless either of us are working.
I like to text and message all day, so if you can’t give back the same amount of attention, we won’t work :/
I like and need consistency, a **LOT**.
I don’t like my girl hanging out with other men alone, unless it’s family. I can get jealous due to some bad ex-partner, I’m sorry I’m not perfect. I don’t hang out with women period, I really feel like that is not ok to do when you are with someone.
I can be possessive of what’s mine. I’m putting it out there so you are aware and can’t handle that. I actually like my girl being possessive and territorial of me, it makes me feel like that person cares about me, gives a shit and it excites me sexually.

**How it all started:**
Well, it started years ago when I was discovering who I really am and how I didn't realize why I was the way I am. I got introduced into BDSM/DDlg with a girl I was seeing who I didn't know was into BDSM, Dom/sub or DDlg lifestyle. She brought the Daddy in me first; the caring, affectionate, loving and protective side while we dated. Later on we went even further by exploring what she enjoyed…..being spanked and other forms of impact play, breath play, hair pulling, anal play, nipple/breast play, humiliation/degradation, etc….so many kinks to list and my Kinks and fetishes started to open up. Then we started to explore the role playing....I found out I enjoyed Taboo sex like Father/daughter and Daddy/little girl and everything to do with it. I loved that I was able to explore the humiliation/degradation aspects of BDSM. From all that, I also learned to provide aftercare for my partner when the sessions were long and/or rough. Me being someone that is extremely affectionate, caring and emotional person, I tend to care a lot about **MY person**, her mental health and wellbeing.

Fetishes & Kinks:
Please DM/message me and I’ll send a picture of my Fetishes & Kinks from FetL.

**About me:**
I was born in ex-Yugoslavia close during the start of the war in the 90’s, my family fled to Germany where we lived for some years until we applied for Canadian residency. In ‘99 me and my family moved to Ontario to settle here in London eventually and get Canadian citizenship. I recently started working for the government and I am truly humbled with my job. When I am dating and with someone, I only care about my partner and they come first above everything else and of course my pup. European people are family oriented and care more for them on a different level than North Americans Iv’e noticed. Maybe that’s where my “Daddy” side in the Daddy-Dom comes from? Lol.

== My BDSM Test ==
100% Dominant
25% Submissive

== My roles ==
100% Master/Mistress
100% Degrader
100% Sadist
100% Caregiver
53% Brat Tamer
43% Rigger
25% Brat
18% Hunter
18% Pet Owner
13% Pet
0% Rope Bunny
0% Slave
0% Degradee
0% Masochist
0% Little
0% Prey

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u/TheSlav87 — 1 day ago
▲ 4 r/AgeGapPersonals+3 crossposts

39 [M4F] #London, ON - Dominant seeking a Sub LTR

Hello and thank you for stopping by :)

Some things to clear up right away:

• If you recognize as a “Goddess” or a “Switch”, I’m not interested.

• Not looking for hookups, I can get attached too easily and value a meaningful relationship.

• I'm very much monogamous and Demi-sexual. I’m okay with my girl being with another girl(I don’t have to be involved, but I have to be present). I am not okay with other men involved physically in anyway with my girl.

• I am not into polygamy or “open relationships”. I just want 1 partner, that’s it. So, stop bothering me.

• I do not want to meet just anyone on here for a quick hook up or to dominate you. I'm looking for something real, meaningful, serious and a relationship over "hook-ups" or "casual dating".

• I have a social life and work outside my Kinky and Dominate side, so someone who wants more than sex and likes being social together.

• I do not want ANY online relationships of any kind.

• I not do distant relationships.

What I’m after:
I am a Dom-Daddy, but one who wishes a submissive to find a feeling of strength from wanting to kneel and offer your submission, in return you will find that place where you are held and shown that care and affection when you have done well and made your Master proud in what ever way that may end up being. Both, with me or even something you have had to overcome in your day to day....Just as much as you will find that disappointment will find you punished in a place where your tears mean very little.. I am looking for something built on trust and honesty from the start, so if you would like to find something real, and something lasting where you can enjoy the feeling of pleasure from truly being collard and having a place to call home in your ownership.

What I want and need:
Please read and understand my needs, wants, agreements, etc in an ideal sub/little/partner/match:
I need someone who like me is extremely needy of their partner and likes constant attention from them, I like a girl that is clingy.
You LOVE being with and around their Daddy all the time, unless either of us are working.
I like to text and message all day, so if you can’t give back the same amount of attention, we won’t work :/
I like and need consistency, a LOT.
I don’t like my girl hanging out with other men alone, unless it’s family. I can get jealous due to some bad ex-partner, I’m sorry I’m not perfect. I don’t hang out with women period, I really feel like that is not ok to do when you are with someone.
I can be possessive of what’s mine. I’m putting it out there so you are aware and can’t handle that. I actually like my girl being possessive and territorial of me, it makes me feel like that person cares about me, gives a shit and it excites me sexually.

How it all started:
Well, it started years ago when I was discovering who I really am and how I didn't realize why I was the way I am. I got introduced into BDSM/DDlg with a girl I was seeing who I didn't know was into BDSM, Dom/sub or DDlg lifestyle. She brought the Daddy in me first; the caring, affectionate, loving and protective side while we dated. Later on we went even further by exploring what she enjoyed…..being spanked and other forms of impact play, breath play, hair pulling, anal play, nipple/breast play, humiliation/degradation, etc….so many kinks to list and my Kinks and fetishes started to open up. Then we started to explore the role playing....I found out I enjoyed Taboo sex like Father/daughter and Daddy/little girl and everything to do with it. I loved that I was able to explore the humiliation/degradation aspects of BDSM. From all that, I also learned to provide aftercare for my partner when the sessions were long and/or rough. Me being someone that is extremely affectionate, caring and emotional person, I tend to care a lot about MY person, her mental health and wellbeing.

Here’s is a glance of my Fetishes & Kinks I have from my FetL account:
Fetishes & Kinks

About me:
I was born in ex-Yugoslavia close during the start of the war in the 90’s, my family fled to Germany where we lived for some years until we applied for Canadian residency. In ‘99 me and my family moved to Ontario to settle here in London eventually and get Canadian citizenship. I recently started working for the government and I am truly humbled with my job. When I am dating and with someone, I only care about my partner and they come first above everything else and of course my pup. European people are family oriented and care more for them on a different level than North Americans Iv’e noticed. Maybe that’s where my “Daddy” side in the Daddy-Dom comes from? Lol.

== My BDSM Test from Fetish.com ==
100% Dominant
25% Submissive

== My roles ==
100% Master/Mistress
100% Degrader
100% Sadist
100% Caregiver
53% Brat Tamer
43% Rigger
25% Brat
18% Hunter
18% Pet Owner
13% Pet
0% Rope Bunny
0% Slave
0% Degradee
0% Masochist
0% Little
0% Prey

u/TheSlav87 — 1 day ago

39 [M4F] #LondonON

Hello :3

I’m hoping to find someone potentially I can start a life with, I’ve been single for a few years now and hope to find a little I can care for. I have been in the lifestyle for years now and I miss being with someone I can care for, love and protect.

I have a huge heart when it comes to my partner, I care way too much and am protective of her. I’m a very affectionate person and can be rather emotionally attached to my person too quick at times. I want someone that understands this and doesn’t take advantage of it.

I like a little that can give me lots of attention, love and affectionate. While I may be a Dominant Daddy, I still like affectionate. I generally spoil my girl and make me her feel loved, I do care about her wellbeing and want to take care of her to help her grow. I want to meet someone that wants to actually date and start a life with me, someone to grow old with.

A little about me:
- 39 years old
- 5’11 broad build
- Caucasian - Eastern European decent
- Bald Head
- I drive and have my own place
- Career in law enforcement

My Hobbies and interests:
- My dog
- Camping/hiking
- Travel
- Board and card games
- House parties
- Horror/Sci-Fi
- Video games
- 3D printing
- 80’s and 90’s music
- Auctions

My Kink/Fetishes:
- Roleplaying
- Breath play (choking)
- Impact play (spanking)
- Humiliation/Degradation
- Bondage
- Free play
- Rimming
- Anal play
- Pet play (curious about)
- way too many to list…..

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u/TheSlav87 — 9 days ago

39 [M4F] #London, ON - Daddy looking for his clingy forever girl

Hello :3

I’m hoping to find someone potentially I can start a life with, I’ve been single for a few years now and hope to find a little I can care for. I have been in the lifestyle for years now and I miss being with someone I can care for, love and protect.

I have a huge heart when it comes to my partner, I care way too much and am protective of her. I’m a very affectionate person and can be rather emotionally attached to my person too quick at times. I want someone that understands this and doesn’t take advantage of it.

I like a little that can give me lots of attention, love and affectionate. While I may be a Dominant Daddy, I still like affectionate. I generally spoil my girl and make me her feel loved, I do care about her wellbeing and want to take care of her to help her grow. I want to meet someone that wants to actually date and start a life with me, someone to grow old with.

A little about me:
- 39 years old
- 5’11 broad build
- Caucasian - Eastern European decent
- Bald Head
- I drive and have my own place
- Career in law enforcement

My Hobbies and interests:
- My dog
- Camping/hiking
- Travel
- Board and card games
- House parties
- Horror/Sci-Fi
- Video games
- 3D printing
- 80’s and 90’s music
- Auctions

My Kink/Fetishes:
- Roleplaying
- Breath play (choking)
- Impact play (spanking)
- Humiliation/Degradation
- Bondage
- Free play
- Rimming
- Anal play
- Pet play (curious about)
- way too many to list…..

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u/TheSlav87 — 9 days ago

39 [M4F] #London, ON - Sadist Daddy-Dom looking for LTR sub

Hello! I’m hoping to meet the right girl on here that also lives in London, Ontario. Sorry not looking for anything short/long distance. I’m looking for a girl that identifies as a sub, I’m also open to someone that considers themselves a little/baby girl.

Why do I like Daddy role?
Since I feel like I didn’t receive the more caring and affectionate upbringing as a child. I like giving that to my partner and making them feel cared for, loved and show affection. I want to make her feel as though she’s safe with me and that she can depend on me. I want to be her rock.

All that being said, I’m also a Sadist. I need a girl who likes receiving pain but enjoys it and it never forced, she gets off of her man inflicting it and is a pain slut. I like a girl that is truly enjoys being slutty for her man and wants her man to “take her” so to speak. I can have a high sex drive with the right girl, if I feel as though she is playful and she is always hands on and likes to be all over me, lol.

I'm only interested in someone who is mature and wants a relationship (commitment), to be collared and owned. I do tend to like a woman who is more clingy/needy and likes giving lots of attention to her man as I like that intensity. I'm attracted to someone more petite/slim/avg, and shorter than me (I’m 6').
I can’t be with someone who can’t take the Dom/sub - DD/lg dynamic real. I live a normal life outside my house and around my friends, but I need MORE with someone I’m with.

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u/TheSlav87 — 12 days ago

39 [M4F] #London, ON - Sadist Daddy-Dom looking for LTR sub

Hello and welcome to my profile.

Please READ my profile before assuming I want to be your Daddy or have a hook up. I don’t.

I’ll start by saying I am not new to this lifestyle, I am also not new to FetLife and just joined again.

Do not ask me about my profession and what I do for work, I’m not going to talk about it to anyone unless I know you well.
I predominantly fall in the Daddy-Dom category but I have Master and Sadist tendencies. I have a ENFJ personality so my Daddy-Dom side is right on point, I care a lot about my girl when I am with her and want to protect her. Her wellbeing is important to me as my partner means everything to me. My Master tenancies come from craving control and order, and I believe in ownership both ways as the D/s-M/s lifestyle is endearing to me. I want my partner to feel as though she owns me as much as I own her, she owns my heart and my cock as such I own all of her heart and all her holes 😏😈
My Sadist side is more so amplified by my partners love for the pleasure of pain, when she gets off of knowing I like to hurt her and she enjoys the pain herself, bit because I do, but because she does as well.

I want to start by saying I am looking for relationship (D/s dynamic in the bedroom) and a partner I can build something long term potentially. I’m old school in the sense that I be like in being with one partner, I don’t care for open relationships, casual dating or anything Poly. I’m not looking for meaningless hookups, I can get attached too easily so I’d rather find someone I connect with what’s the same things. I’m 39 years old, I want to have experiences with someone I can call mine.
I require a woman that can give me attention, affectionate and is able to keep up with it and likes attention from her man. I can’t reiterate enough, if you can’t give me enough attention on a daily basis, we won’t compatible. When I am with someone, they are MY priority and I MAKE time for them. Even at work, I make time for my partner to text her back or call. I work in law enforcement, so when someone tells me they can’t as they’re “busy”, I call their bullshit.
As such, you can tell I need CRAVE consistency, routineand I believe in structure & discipline. If you are someone that needs the above from you partner and for him to be able to give you that, I will do so if we are compatible and are looking for the same things in life and our partner.

What I am NOT looking for:

Men
Hook-ups/Casual Dating/Open relationships/FWB/Poly-anything
Domme or Dominant/Switch or Goddess
Someone older than me (39)
BBW
Anyone NOT from London, ON and immediate area

My biggest kinks and fetishes:

- Anal sex & play
- Roleplaying
- Impact play and other sadistic BDSM play
- Humiliation & degradation
- Collar and lead/leash
- (Oral) Kissing/Deep French kissing
- Blowjobs & Ball Sucking (receiving) - as sloppy, nasty or dirty as possible
- Rimjobs (Giving/Receiving)
- Cum Swallow (Receiving)

——————————————————————

HARD NO LIMITS:

Scat
Cutting/Needles
Blood
Anyone Underage

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u/TheSlav87 — 14 days ago

39 [M4F] #London, ON - Sadist Daddy-Dom looking for LTR sub

Please READ everything before assuming I want to be your Daddy or have a hook up. I don’t.

I’ll start by saying I am not new to this lifestyle.

Do not ask me about my profession and what I do for work, I’m not going to talk about it to anyone unless I know you well.
I predominantly fall in the Daddy-Dom category but I have Master and Sadist tendencies. I have a ENFJ personality so my Daddy-Dom side is right on point, I care a lot about my girl when I am with her and want to protect her. Her wellbeing is important to me as my partner means everything to me. My Master tenancies come from craving control and order, and I believe in ownership both ways as the D/s-M/s lifestyle is endearing to me. I want my partner to feel as though she owns me as much as I own her, she owns my heart and my cock as such I own all of her heart and all her holes 😏😈
My Sadist side is more so amplified by my partners love for the pleasure of pain, when she gets off of knowing I like to hurt her and she enjoys the pain herself, bit because I do, but because she does as well.

I want to start by saying I am looking for relationship (D/s dynamic in the bedroom) and a partner I can build something long term potentially. I’m old school in the sense that I be like in being with one partner, I don’t care for open relationships, casual dating or anything Poly. I’m not looking for meaningless hookups, I can get attached too easily so I’d rather find someone I connect with what’s the same things. I’m 39 years old, I want to have experiences with someone I can call mine.

I require a woman that can give me attention, affectionate and is able to keep up with it and likes attention from her man. I can’t reiterate enough, if you can’t give me enough attention on a daily basis, we won’t compatible. When I am with someone, they are MY priority and I MAKE time for them. Even at work, I make time for my partner to text her back or call. I work in law enforcement, so when someone tells me they can’t as they’re “busy”, I call their bullshit.

As such, you can tell I need CRAVE consistency, routineand I believe in structure & discipline. If you are someone that needs the above from you partner and for him to be able to give you that, I will do so if we are compatible and are looking for the same things in life and our partner.

I believe someone younger with a bit of an age gap will be able to keep up with giving me attention and me giving it back. Also the fact that when it come to libido, I’d like to think a girl younger
Will be able to match my mine and also intensity it 😈

What I am NOT looking for:

- Men
- Hook-ups/Casual Dating/Open relationships/FWB/Poly-anything
- Domme or Dominant/Switch or Goddess
- Someone older than me (39)
- BBW
- Anyone NOT from London, ON and immediate area
——————————————————————
HARD NO LIMITS:
- Scat
- Cutting/Needles
- Blood
- Anyone Underage

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u/TheSlav87 — 14 days ago