I really don’t know if this is the right place to talk about my concerns, and sometime I might seem to be like a boomer, but bear with me!
About half a decode ago, as a heheroflexible, had a lot of genuine connections with explorers both male as female as well.
They were fun! Discrete, and genuine!
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Nowadays Reddit seems to have moved to a galley of posts who provide models (both male- female) to lure not only to DM, but Snapchat/Telegram/Onlyfans etc etc.
Let me be totally clear: it’s totally okay to make your money this way. There’s a place for you and I’m happy for that! The thing that bothers me, is that’s not clear up front. To me, looking for just a fun chat and we’ll see where things go from there, it feels like blindfolded throwing messages, reactions etc is the default. I love genuine interest, exploring each other and see if there’s a click.
Paying creates inequality. I’m just not cheap, I can afford it easily. But paying is the bomb under inequality. I guess a lot of men probably do in their look to get off, but I’m just not in that category.
What are your thoughts all? I’m curious and exploring! Every angle on this topic is value able, so don’t hesitate to respond!
Thanks community!