u/Trevas_kavur

[M40] straight male first solo visit. (Thursday / pole night?) — what should I expect?

Hey everyone,

I’m thinking of checking out Oasis this Thursday for the first time, going solo as a single guy.

I noticed there’s a beginner pole dancing event happening that night, but I’m mostly curious about the general vibe of the venue and what a Thursday crowd is usually like.

A few questions:

What’s the typical Thursday atmosphere like?

Is it more social / mingly, or do most people stick to their own groups?

As a solo first-timer male, any etiquette tips or things I should know?

Best time to arrive?

Any must-bring items (swimwear, towel, sandals, etc.)?

Anything you wish you knew before your first visit?

Just looking to have a respectful first experience and know what to expect.

Thanks!

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u/Trevas_kavur — 5 days ago