[M40] straight male first solo visit. (Thursday / pole night?) — what should I expect?
Hey everyone,
I’m thinking of checking out Oasis this Thursday for the first time, going solo as a single guy.
I noticed there’s a beginner pole dancing event happening that night, but I’m mostly curious about the general vibe of the venue and what a Thursday crowd is usually like.
A few questions:
What’s the typical Thursday atmosphere like?
Is it more social / mingly, or do most people stick to their own groups?
As a solo first-timer male, any etiquette tips or things I should know?
Best time to arrive?
Any must-bring items (swimwear, towel, sandals, etc.)?
Anything you wish you knew before your first visit?
Just looking to have a respectful first experience and know what to expect.
Thanks!
u/Trevas_kavur — 5 days ago