I drunk a lot to boost my confidence. Now I drink nothing, because I don't need it anymore and I kinda made it a rule to get my life together. But I noticed that people treat you differently when you're not drinking with them even if you vibe on the same st00pid-drunky level.
Does anyone here has a succesful experience of sober night pickup?
I went to a club. Standing in a long queue to get inside. That's where I met the first girl. We instanly had a good talk. It was so good she even hugged me for most of the time, because it was cold outside. Then as soon as we got inside and on the dance floor things changed. She pushed me away as I tried to take her dancing and later showed me middle finger when I decided to take off. That was 1h+ interaction.
Then I met another one. Great talk. Many things in common. Great erotic dance. Several almost kisses. Then she went "for just a moment to her female friends". 5 minutes later I see her with another dude, pretending I don't exist. That was 30min+ interaction.
Bruh.