u/Tsoungy

Real connection when everything stays virtual

Hey everyone,

I hope that everything is going smoothly for you !

A little bit of background:
I’m relatively « new » to soft domming and for now I have only done virtual kinky sessions with partners that became friends. Even if I « played » for a long time, I wasn’t even thinking of an « everyday life » softdom path. That’s why I’m consider myself as « new ».

Now, my question:
Almost everything is erotic — very little everyday life dynamic.
I can usually guide the pleasure and build intensity pretty well through text or voice, but I sometimes feel like something is missing: that deeper emotional intimacy and connection.
It’s hard to replicate the feeling of real closeness through a screen.
I wanted to know if someone overcome this situation and how ? Any advice is more than welcome.

Have a great day !

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u/Tsoungy — 7 days ago