u/TuffCookieSoftCenter

Hello 🌹 I have this long weekend with the house to myself and am thinking it's great to start looking out for my summer fling (... that hopefully lasts far beyond the summer).

I am seeking a casual primarily-online relationship with one man. My pocket boyfriend, or a FWB, emphasis on "friend". I’m looking for good mornings, good nights, banter, flirting, selfies, “thinking of you”s- all of it. Our SFW connection must be as strong (if not stronger) than our NSFW one, and I won't be entering any dynamic lightly.

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💁🏻‍♀️ Me:

White, dark hair, dark eyes, and a lot of black clothes. Heavily tattooed, moderately pierced. Short, with a little extra, and have been lifting heavy for about 3 years and look like it, despite my soft tummy.

As a switch I lean slightly more dominant, and have very tease-y gentle domme energy. Sub men that I have played with have said that I am sweet and thoughtful, and that I'm a natural at making men melt. I like being the safe space for your vulnerability.

I have some trouble tapping into my sub energy, I really need a reason to let a man tell me what to do, and can be a little bratty because of it (I will absolutely call a man in his dom energy a good boy and happily take my punishment for it). But!! I'm looking for this.

I have a pinned post on my profile with my kinks! I'm happy to chat through them. I wouldn't say there is anything there that is a must-have. I'm looking for a partner to safely explore and try new things with.

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🙋🏻‍♂️ You:

UNFORTUNATELY, I do have a type, and I've settled too many times in my life to not attempt to have my standards met here (and I'm patient enough to wait for the right person). If you're not in the weight room regularly I simply will just not be that into you. I want to be able to chat about our splits, complain about our cuts, and celebrate our progress together.

As a dom you lead gently, and ramp up the intensity gradually. I spook easily if things go too far too fast. Men who check in frequently and communicate well in this regard will have me melting.

I generally prefer sub men who are masculine and successful in public, but enjoy submitting to strong-willed women in private.

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SOME IMPORTANT NOTES BELOW, do not skip!!

🚩 I’m broadcasting my red flags early: I’m recently separated, currently still living under the same roof of my (soon to be ex-) husband. I’m keeping new relationships on the down-low for now, and it will occasionally affect my availability, though in general it should be quite good. No shade to those of you who fall into this category, but I'm not interested in men already in committed relationships at this time. Also, I am not yet Chicago-based but will be in a couple of months. I’m a little over-eager for this next stage of my life.

💤 I keep an early bedtime, so if you know you need late night attention from your dynamic, you will be disappointed by me. Time zone is CST, my schedule tends to work well with folks in EST. Bedtime is ~830 PM.

🗝 This post wasn’t written by AI, I don’t want your money, and no part of me is for sale.

📆 My ideal age range for a partner is between 33 and 43 years old.

🤷🏻‍♀️ If you don't hear back from me, or if I quietly disappear: I could be busy, or I could already have hit it off with someone and am giving them a chance, or maybe the response has been overwhelming, or maybe you could have not made it clear that you read this post or have been thoughtful in your message, or you maybe just don't pass the vibe test. Don't make it weird.

📝 In your initial message to me, include your age and a brief physical description. Let me know what about this post has you interested! Let me know why you think we could be a good fit!

Hello 🌹 36F here, I am white, have dark hair and dark eyes, wear a lot of dark clothes, and am heavily tattooed. I am short, have been lifting heavy for a few years and look like it, but still have a soft tummy. I have major oldest-daughter energy, am both physically and mentally strong, and very capable and independent in my day-to-day life.

At its base, I am seeking an online romantic relationship with one man. A pocket boyfriend. Good mornings, good nights, banter, flirting, selfies, “thinking of you”s- all of it.

Unfortunately, I do have a type. I am interested specifically in speaking with tall, fit-ish men, who are physically strong. If you can't out-lift me, don't know what it's like to struggle through a cut, and aren’t a gym regular, I will simply not be into you. I'd like to swap sfw, semi-anonymous photos early.

I am relatively new to kink, and have more experience as a domme, and have been told I'm a natural at making men melt, but I am seeking a gentle dom-leaning man this time around. I am a little shy at first, and I take a little bit to warm up. Please bear with me as I am still a bit green in this space! I'm excited to try new things in a safe space with a person I trust.

It's a must that we are able to get along in a sfw context before dipping our toes in anything nsfw, and I will not be entering any dynamic quickly or lightly.

SOME IMPORTANT NOTES BELOW, do not skip!!

🚩 Red flags early: I’m recently separated, currently still living under the same roof of my (soon to be ex-) husband. I’m keeping new relationships on the down-low for now, and it will occasionally affect my availability, though in general it should be quite good.

💤 I keep an early bedtime, so if you know you need late night attention from your dynamic, you will be disappointed by me. Time zone is CST, my schedule tends to work well with folks in EST.

🗝 This post wasn’t written by AI, I don’t want your money, and no part of me is for sale.

📆 My ideal age range for a partner is between 33 and 43 years old.

🤷‍♀️ If you don't hear back from me: I could be busy, I could already have hit it off with someone and am giving them a chance, maybe I'm just overwhelmed, or maybe you could have not made it clear that you read this post, or you maybe just don't pass the vibe test. Don't make it weird. (And! I may be slow responding tonight.)

📝 In your initial message to me, include your age and a brief physical description. Let me know what about this post has you interested!