u/UnknownCrossing

You wouldn’t know it if you saw me, but I enjoy being submissive over a Dom. Something about giving up control to someone you love and trust has always been attractive to me. It’s certainly a way of life that isn’t for most. But I feel I am ready to settle down with someone who truly understands me and my desires. And I hope to find someone who not only enjoys the lifestyle, they wish to find a forever partner to marry and start a life with.

How do I envision the relationship? Well I think you’ll find I’m masculine by nature. Tall, white, and an average body that’s slowly becoming more toned. I’m looking for someone who wants to have the dynamic be our little secret. On the outside, we are a loving couple who you’d never guess is living the femdom lifestyle. But when the doors closes, I’m give up the mask and become your loving submissive partner.

I’m not sure I’m into the more domination style of femdom, but rather the gentle femdom lifestyle. Where things are done out of love for your sub. Maybe you saw me doing something you didn’t like at a family outing. When we get home you decide you need to peg me, not out of a punishment, but out of a sweet love that I’ll never learn if you don’t do it.

That being said, I would be interested in exploring the more darker and hardcore side of Femdom with a loving partner I trust, and of course is into it.

So what is it that I offer:

-friendly personality who is just a lovable goofball. In my free time I like to spend it hiking and site seeing new places I’ve never been. So I hope you are passport ready!
-I love bowling in my free time and will spend 1 a week trying to get better. I love casual scenes of bowling over competitive.
-financially independent and looking for a place to settle down. I’m happy with my job in California, but I’d be open to relocating down the road should the need arise. I am looking to buy a house next year!
-I love video games, board games, and all things nerdy so I hope you love a little submissive nerd.
-I love to cook and will learn to cook whatever dishes you like. I find a lot of joy in cooking for others.
-happy to share more of whatever you’d like to know

What I’m looking for:
-well the femdom dynamic of course, someone who loves to be in control and decide what we do. I’m open to giving up financial and other control too, but of course with someone I trust and love.
-outside the dynamic, I love people who are sweet and innocent on the outside. I go crazy when my person is so nice to everyone on the outside but controlling on the inside to your special someone.
-nerdy as well so we can bond over common fandoms.
-open to all locations in the world, I feel the world is a great place to find your someone. As long as we work towards eventually building someone closer.

Happy to share more if this post has caught your eye. I appreciate you taking the time to read. I hope to hear back from you :)