This past year, I've seen one provider five times. We always start off with a date at a nearby bar, catching up before heading back to the hotel. The social outing with them is a highlight for me, as I love spending time with them. However, I've never been able to cum due to either me or her needing a break, and a second round is never really attempted between us, with well over an hour left in the session. Is this something the client normally initiates, or is it up to the provider?
The first time was on me, as I couldn't keep it up. The second time, we didn't even have sex as we lost track of time bar hopping. She promised me an additional hour free at our next meeting.
Our third date was six hours, with her free additional hour, and we headed back to the hotel room with two hours left. I was on top and leading for most of it, when I kinda fucked myself into exhaustion, and I needed a break with well over an hour left. We lay in silence, which I didn't mind, as a personal matter consumed most of my thinking that day. With about 30 minutes left in the session, she offered a second round, and I said yes. As we were about to start, hotel maintenance knocked on our door, and I had to clear up an issue with them. Heading back to the bed with about 20 minutes left, she says there isn't enough time, and we get dressed and leave.
The fourth date was the longest stretch I've gone without seeing her, so we had a lot of catching up to do. We had a great time at the bar, and she offered extra time for free because she had a clear schedule that night and was having a good time. I said yes to it. We stayed at the bar for the three-hour sessions I paid for, and the free additional time was spent at the hotel, which was about two hours. After foreplay and sex, she asked to take a break. We had over 90 minutes left, and we just chatted before she called it a night.
The fifth date was when I began to question whether I was leaving time on the table. We have a nice time bar hopping and head back to the hotel room. We showered and started to have sex. After never having her on top in CG, I asked her to be on top lead, which she did, but after 2 minutes, she asked if we could switch. Taking the lead again, I didn't get tired, but she asked if we could stop after about 15 minutes, as she needed a break. We have about an hour left, but again, neither of us made an attempt at a second round. We lay there and talked until the session was over.
I enjoy the social time with her immensely, and it's nice getting to know her while we sip cocktails. I can't help but feel I'm leaving time on the table by not asking for a second round. I'm pretty average below the belt, so I don't think it's a size issue, and I definitely understand needing to take a break to catch your breath. Also, I know no matter the number of hours I book, I should not expect to have sex the entire time. As a client with enough time left in the session, should I initiate a second round, or is this something providers normally do? Before booking her again, I would like the community's feedback