u/Upbeat_Diver_7771

My wife and I have been together for years. Since ive know her i feel like ive been teaching her more about sex than anything. I don't mind giving her a good pounding but I also really enjoy receiving head. I've been subtle about it and open about it and even demand it (per her request). It mainly turns into getting a handy or me doing something im not in the mood for.

90% of our sex life i focus on her because i gave needs she's not willing to fill. What should i do to the only time she does it is when her friend calls and im no against making a show.