u/Upper_Commercial_964

49 [M4F] #Naperville - Giving oral is my love language

Giving oral is my love language.

Figured I’d just lead with that instead of pretending otherwise.

Late 40s guy here. Clean, discreet, non-smoker, normal job, normal life, just missing chemistry and physical connection with someone who actually enjoys the same things I do.

I’m very much a giver by nature. I like the build up, the flirting, the tension, the little moments where you can tell someone’s getting distracted in the best way. I honestly get more satisfaction out of making a woman melt a little than anything else.

Not really looking for a cold transactional meetup. I miss excitement, anticipation, laughing between making out, all of that. Attraction matters, but personality and vibe matter too.

If you’re into confident but laid back men, good conversation, and being thoroughly appreciated, we’ll probably get along just fine.

Tell me your age and what kind of chemistry you miss most.

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u/Upper_Commercial_964 — 11 days ago

Fit, 5' 11", 175lb. Its been over a year since I got any oral satisfaction. Looking for something casual, drama-free, and discreet. Ideally semi-regular, but open to a one-time connection if the vibe is right.

I’m easygoing and respectful, and I value clear communication and mutual comfort. No pressure, no expectations beyond what we both agree on. Just looking for a bit of fun and good energy when it works for both of us.

Must be 18+. If you’re interested, feel free to message with a bit about yourself.

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u/Upper_Commercial_964 — 20 days ago

Looking for a bi couple for regular play dates. I am clean, discreet, disease free, non smoker, well traveled professional. Love playing with bi couples, its something about the freedom of doing what comes naturally and all three giving each other pleasure.

I have quite a bit of experience with this kind of play. Happy to discuss in private.

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u/Upper_Commercial_964 — 23 days ago