49 [M4F] #Naperville - Giving oral is my love language
Giving oral is my love language.
Figured I’d just lead with that instead of pretending otherwise.
Late 40s guy here. Clean, discreet, non-smoker, normal job, normal life, just missing chemistry and physical connection with someone who actually enjoys the same things I do.
I’m very much a giver by nature. I like the build up, the flirting, the tension, the little moments where you can tell someone’s getting distracted in the best way. I honestly get more satisfaction out of making a woman melt a little than anything else.
Not really looking for a cold transactional meetup. I miss excitement, anticipation, laughing between making out, all of that. Attraction matters, but personality and vibe matter too.
If you’re into confident but laid back men, good conversation, and being thoroughly appreciated, we’ll probably get along just fine.
Tell me your age and what kind of chemistry you miss most.