Hi Utah Swingers,
My girlfriend and I have been interested in possibly trying out the whole lifestyle thing and honestly we aren't entirely sure how or where we should start.
In a perfect world we imagine meeting a couple we are both attracted to out in the wild and something just happening naturally. We just have no clue how we would make that happen for us. How do we bring up the fact that we want to have a foursome with another couple in public without risking embarrassing ourselves? Maybe we shouldn't worry about that, but its definitely something that makes this sort of thing difficult to make happen naturally.
We are most interested in a MFMF or a MFF experience and honestly we are unsure how to go about this. To be completely honest we are both nervous to make a post on this thread including pics and honestly sharing pics can sometimes be a little scary for both of us too.
We have fears like I'm sure lots of other newbies have. We live in here in Utah so posting on this form and that is being recognized or somehow our pictures getting out and there and then all of the sudden our private fantasy is just out there in the open for anyone on the internet to see.
I guess what we are looking for is some good advice for how to get our toes wet in the lifestyle without fully posting our pics for the world to see or sending out pics willy nilly to other users on reddit. We really want to play it super safe, but we also want to make this happen! Lol so its a hard line to figure out how to toe.
Obviously we want to share pics however, how to share pics safely is one of our main concerns. Ideally, we would like to share pics and then facetime with a couple or female just so we know they are legit before we met up. But I am just not completely familiar with the customs or norms for doing this sort of thing.
We tried out some apps but honestly the apps aren't our favorite. If anyone has any suggestions for how we might start our journey in the lifestyle that would be amazing.
Thank you Utah Swinger Community!