Hi all, I’m on the hunt to get my first hard packer. My girlfriend is coming to visit me in a few months and we’re looking to have some fun when she’s here. :) I’m not yet on T and still won’t be when she visits so I’m looking for a hard packer that gives me the best chance of feeling something during PIV.
Currently it’s between the BP S3 and the Transthetics Joystick because both have an insert where a vibe can go if I’m unable to get any sensation at all otherwise (I do naturally have some bottom growth but of course, not a hell of a lot because I’m pre-T). Also for now I’d like to start out with something simple where balls aren’t gonna get in the way.
I don’t have enough time nor money to put in a custom order to Gendercat so I was curious if the S3 would suffice for our needs. I’m willing to splurge a bit on the Joystick if it’s really good but I’ve heard mixed things so I’m specifically curious about the S3 (also I heard the Joystick requires a condom and the S3 does not; she wants to be able to give me BJs and I heard this is not ideal/safe with the Joystick because it’s painted. Plus, I prefer to avoid condoms due to latex sensitivity lol).
So yeah, I’d love to hear any reviews from y’all! Not too worried about realism or hardness/softness, and the size is what her and I both want. Just curious about how it feels and how well it performs for both parties in the bedroom. Thanks for any help!