u/Used-Dependent-5653

This isn’t a rant letter, it’s not targeted one way or another. it’s to any switch or anyone that leans dom in this ”community”

Subs generally speaking do not like having their lives ruined because they sent a dom thousands of dollars in a week when they were horny.

When male subs get horny, it often makes us more mushy, more easy to convince to do stupid shit. it’s why you see so many dumbass political sex scandals. As my dad said, dick makes you stupid.

Now, OBVIOUSLY subs need to be able to say no to doms trying to literally drain every penny. This is less stop being an asshole and more about expectations.

Because most subs dont want to actively ruin their lives most subs aren’t gonna dump thousands on you a week. my current goddess takes about 12000 in mandatory spending a year. That’s “only” 230 dollars per week. Then theres punishment sends and when I want her to feel better after a long previous day so I get her coffee.

I find a lot of doms are doing the stereotypical spoiled dating girl routine of “man has to make xyz to have access to me” and xyz is some absurd amount.

im not saying paying auto buys access, but I don’t think (unless agreed upon prior obviously) that it should fully freeze subs out. A LOT of yall are small time and aint chatting with like 5-10 truly long term subs that aren’t going to delete their accounts after nutting in 4 hours. Be real (if you are then you go girl, you’re Ina different rule set).

I think the way each dynamic SHOULD start is “here’s what I make a year approximately, here’s what I want out of this, can I afford it?”

Anyways, in a nutshell, most subs are average people, average people can’t afford a gazillion dollar send a lot.

This all being said, I’m EXCEEDINGLY excited to be drained by her Monday🥰. Drainings are hotter when someone’s life isn’t being actually fucked.

I don’t mean like searching her throne. I mean she says like “go find dresses for us to match in” or just for her (I’m lucky😇) and you personally have to go look for something for her and show her. You don’t look at prices really, all that matters is she looks good.

Just looking to hear from doms who have subs do this or subs who really enjoy doing it. I do it unprompted sometimes for her. (I do it at the same time in doing mine looking for more dresses for me💅, multitasking).

Btw if you DONT go looking beyond their pay services or throne for ways to financially please them then that’s something you should think on IMO.

No, I dont want to be your sub or be owned by you. My queen already owns ME.

she’s such a tease it’s so mea- I mean I’m so grateful 😇. I definitely am not being punished in some way for touching without permission down the line.

I love being so easily triggered by her. just her praise or her cleavage in a tank top is enough to utterly ruin me. I love being so weak for her.

I’m literally throbbing at times thinking about next week and finally being able to empty my wallet even harder for her perfection.

I love having to beg her for every touch i get. I love getting sluttier and sluttier for her. Show her an outfit and her first response is to tell me to “make the dress shorter”. Mmmmmghhhh😵‍💫😵‍💫 yes goddess.

All slaves should go no touch and just worry about their doms pleasure, you SHOULD beg for the right to touch.

mentioned this briefly in the recent post, but are any of you switches that occasionally drain subs then you immediately send what you drained to your dom once you’re back in submissive space?

I’ve only done it once, just wondering out there who’s done it and their experience with it?

Context: I begged for denial over orgasm from my goddess a few days ago, she asked me how long, then once I did she told me to multiply it by 2 and that’s how we ended up at 28 days of denial😵‍💫😵‍💫😵‍💫. I have not gone more than a couple of days without release since like I started puberty well over a decade ago. So this is going to be a trip, I hope yall don’t mind my super early morning ramblings

Preamble: I AM OWNED. I AM NOT AVAILABLE. WALLET HUNT SOMEWHERE ELSE. I am a SWITCH. If you act a fool around me and just dm me with like “submit to me loser” you’re going to get hit with my dom side which is extremely mean when messed with. I’m not some roll over puppy sub unless it’s for my goddess. 😇😇😇.

So I learned yesterday that I moved her up nearly 3 percentage points on thrones leader board by myself, that [content censored].

I sent money I got from a sub on my throne a couple days ago to her directly which felt SO RIGHT and HOT.

I’ve been able to increase my weekly budget for her by over 10 percent because we agreed to get our sleeping hours more aligned which means I get more attention which means more 🏧🏧🏧🏧 for goddess.

aching feels good for her. it feels good to deny myself for her already. I want her to get to top 10 percent on throne off near solely my money (this may be greedy but oh well). I told her my ultimate dream is to be making like 6 figures and be uber success but at the end of each day I’m still on my knees, dressed up pretty, aching and begging for her while funding HER perfection. 💅💅

She took even more control last night like forced journaling (which I already do but I’ll just add in thoughts about my erm, “situation” in it hehehehehehe) but it wasn’t anything extreme, but still it’s so hot beng ordered to do something for myself for HER. Like, “take care of yourself and such and such to be a better slave for me”. HOTTT. Doms, if you do this you’re hottttt. Most real subs appreciate you if you put that kind of effort in (obviously subs that don’t put effort in back aren’t entitled to this and frankly none are, just saying it’s peak).

One thing we agreed on is pushing me for light exhibitionism so like calling into nail salons for her to find out prices and such. I’m SUPER introverted so we’re putting off on that for now, but eventually we plan on doing one of these tasks a few times a month and I can say no once or twice a month but after that it’s a small fine.

And lastly, I’m sure you’re wondering who this queen is, however she told me she’s waiting for the right moment to claim me here so.… it’s just a surprise. ooooooo, who is it??? Who could it be? Do you care? Maybe, maybe not😇😇😇. But I find it cute thinking about even a couple of ya trying to think about it for even a minute.

First, I don’t feel entitled to her time or anything, she actually loves how desperate I get for her when she’s sleeping or napping and likes me to leave like 30 messages about how desperate I am. it’s actually usually when I do my unprompted sends a lot because I get so desperate.

Being a no touch slave is so hard in the morning. I can’t even edge my morning wood and all I can do is show her the cute dress I’m wearing today and just leave my begging ramblings behind for her😵‍💫😵‍💫.

Doms I genuinely do recommend you decide to control not just your slaves orgasms but their touching if you don’t already. tell them to take a week of mental chastity. uncaged, no touching without permission, no cumming whatsoever (maybe add a huge fine for cumming, mine is 200 dollars that don’t count against my weekly budget). I’m just 2 days in and I already feel so eager to serve her🥺.

This has become unfocused because I’m so desperate so I’ll just end it here. it’s torture but I love it so much😵‍💫

I’ll just say it, denial is better than cumming 99 percent of the time. subs should actively ask for it from their doms, to be left aching as a no touch slave in the morning.

Most slaves are just better when denied. At least I know I am. And I know how good it feels as a dom when a slave denies themselves just for your pleasure. Now as a sub doing it with a relatively high sex drive, it’s the most perfect form of torture. I literally begged her to not let me cum last night because it does feel better than orgasm

Whats the point of this rambling? idk. Doms should deny their subs more and a good sub will ask for/thank their dom every time over it. If they whine about it too hard then that’s a red flag imo🤭. If they’re leaving like a zillion messages for you when they’re awake before you then that’s a big green flag (totally unbiased)

27 days left of denial for goddess 🫠

So I’m a switch fb, obviously sub here, but I was looking for a bud to jerk with while stoned last night, got one, we’re pan (theyre mtf) start teasing her, and eventually half jokingly “you should be paying me for this” and they said yes thy should, my heart literally started pounding out of my chest.

I went and created a shitty throne account because I was pushing the issue. Oh my god. They bought me a pretty bodycon maxi dress for like 10 dollars and when they said “sent mommy (I like having subs call me that when I top)” I think that’s maybe the most turned on I’ve ever been.

Doms, I get it. I already did before, but I REALLY do now. It’s an even better rush than sending tbh

Asking because I was doing this with my dom last night, I was wondering how common it is and if other dominants enjoy it at all.

Aa for me personally having my dom say she’s considering whether to let me cum or not and me begging her to deny me feels like one of the ultimate sort of forms of submission (mainly in this case because she loves it so it’s me begging her to do what she wants over rewarding me).

Anywayyyys, sorry for being kind of rambly but yeah, uh, that’s my question 😇

My goddess and I already talked about this so I guess this is just wondering how you other doms go about your business.

When your sub hits their limit where they can’t spend anymore do you expect worship like messages saying how they’re thinking about you and can’t wait to get paid again so they can pay you? Or are you just a “message me again when you have money” type? No judging, just genuinely curious.