u/Vast-Panda-9632

Well I didn't expect such a consensus that men are almost universally bad at oral from my last post!

A couple of men were kind enough to explain what women like, but only one woman did.

As a contribution to making the world a little bit better, and knowing that everyone is different, would any of the ladies like to give some useful starting points (not for me obs 😁)?

I'm assuming that good communication/feedback can be used for customisation...

I know everyone is different and some women don't want oral, but I've never wondered why until a few weeks ago when a girl told me she avoided it 'because most men don't know what they are doing'.

I've been thinking about this ever since. For me personally (as a man) a bad BJ is better than no BJ and I'm struggling to think of what could happen for me not to want to risk it (sharp teeth maybe?).

So what are these men doing that's so bad? Or was she just very unlucky in the past?