u/Victorine_hychika

Hey, so I'm 27 and yeah, I'm a virgin. Like actually, completely. Not for religious reasons or anything dramatic, just never happened and I want it to be with someone who gets it.

I'm not looking for a husband or some deep long-term commitment. Definitely not trying to get married off this post lol. I just want someone I actually click with, someone patient who understands this is a big deal for me and won't rush it. I do prefer someone (25-45 average) who had experiences with virgins.

But here's the thing - I'm not meeting anyone in person right away. I need to talk first, like actually talk. Build some connection, see if we vibe, make sure you're not weird or pushy. If we can't have a good conversation here, we're definitely not doing anything in real life.

What I want is simple: real chemistry, mutual attraction, and someone who can make my first time actually enjoyable instead of awkward. No pressure for anything beyond that.

If you're patient, respectful, and cool with taking time to chat first, send me a message telling me about yourself. Not just "hey" - put some effort in. Tell me why you responded to this specifically.

Located in France, can travel a bit if we actually get there but let's see if we connect first.

Hi everyone! I'm a 27-year-old woman from France looking for an experienced, patient man to guide me through my very first time. Yes, I'm a virgin - completely inexperienced and looking for someone who knows how to make a first time special, comfortable, and memorable.

Physically, I'm average height with curves, brunette with green eyes. I'm bookish, enjoy nature walks, and love cooking. I might seem shy at first, but I open up once I feel comfortable with someone.

Since this is my first time ever, I need someone who understands the importance of going slow, building trust, and making sure I feel completely at ease. I'm looking for a man who is experienced but respectful, someone who has done this before and knows how to handle a virgin with care and patience. Teaching and guidance are exactly what I need.

Discretion is very important to me, as is mutual respect and clear communication. I'm not looking to rush into anything - I want to chat first, get to know you, and see if there's a connection before meeting.

If you're experienced, patient, mature, and understand how to handle a first-timer properly, please send me a personalized message showing you've read this entire post. I won't respond to generic copy-paste messages.

Looking forward to hearing from the right person!

Hi there,

I'm a 28-year-old French woman ready to explore my sensual side for the first time. I'm looking for someone patient and experienced to help me discover physical pleasures in a relaxed, uncomplicated way.

I'm not seeking a relationship or commitment - just a simple connection where we can both enjoy ourselves. I'd prefer someone between 25-45 who has experience specifically with helping women explore their sensuality for the first time. Your confidence and previous experience in this area would definitely help me feel more comfortable and at ease.

I'm educated, can hold a conversation, and have a curious nature about many things - including this new adventure.

If you're patient, respectful, and have experience guiding women through their first intimate experiences, I'd love to hear from you. Please tell me a bit about yourself and your previous experiences helping someone in a similar situation.

Looking forward to hearing from you.

Hi there,

I'm a 28-year-old French woman who has decided it's time to explore my sensual side. Yes, you read that right - I'm still a virgin at my age, and I'm looking for someone patient and experienced to help me discover physical pleasures.

I'm not looking for a relationship or commitment, just a simple, uncomplicated connection where we can both enjoy ourselves. I'd prefer someone between 25-45 years old who has experience in these matters and can guide me gently. Your confidence and experience would definitely help me feel more comfortable and relaxed.

I'm open to chatting first to see if we connect before potentially meeting up. I'm educated, can hold a conversation, and have a curious nature about many things - including this.

If you're patient, respectful, and interested in helping a French woman discover new pleasures, send me a message. Tell me a bit about yourself and what you might enjoy teaching me.

Looking forward to hearing from you.

F27, completely inexperienced and a virgin, seeking a patient, experienced man to guide me through my first sexual journey. I'm at a point in my life where I'm ready to explore this side of myself, but I want it to be with someone understanding who won't rush or judge me.

About me: I'm petite build, with long brown hair and brown eyes. Friends would describe me as intelligent, thoughtful, and a bit reserved until I get comfortable with someone. I enjoy reading, hiking, and deep conversations. I've been focused on my career and studies until now, which is why I haven't explored this aspect of life yet.

What I'm looking for: Someone between 25-45 who is sexually experienced but also emotionally mature. Patience is crucial - I want to build trust and comfort through multiple meetings before becoming intimate. I'm hoping for a connection that's both physical and emotional, even if it's temporary.

My boundaries: I need to take things slowly, with clear communication throughout. Safe sex is non-negotiable. I'm not interested in anything extreme or degrading - just a mutually respectful exploration of pleasure.

I'm not looking for a one-night stand, but rather a series of encounters where we can gradually build intimacy. I want to learn about my body and what brings me pleasure with someone who prioritizes my comfort and enjoyment.

If you're interested in this unique journey with me, please message with details about yourself, your experience, and what you're hoping for. I'm happy to exchange photos after we've established some rapport and feel there's potential compatibility.

I'm a 19-year-old French girl who finds myself constantly replaying my first sexual experiences in my mind. The memories are so vivid and intense, yet I've never really had anyone to share them with honestly. I'm looking for someone open-minded to discuss these moments without judgment or taboos - just genuine curiosity and respectful conversation. No ulterior motives, just the desire to connect over shared human experiences. Would you be interested in exchanging stories about what surprised us most, what turned us on unexpectedly, and those moments that still make us blush? If so, I'd love to start with a question in DM.

I'm a 19-year-old French girl who finds myself constantly replaying my first sexual experiences in my mind. The memories are so vivid and intense, yet I've never really had anyone to share them with honestly. I'm looking for someone open-minded to discuss these moments without judgment or taboos - just genuine curiosity and respectful conversation. No ulterior motives, just the desire to connect over shared human experiences. Would you be interested in exchanging stories about what surprised us most, what turned us on unexpectedly, and those moments that still make us blush? If so, I'd love to start with a question in DM.

Hi! 19 years old, French expat in Belgium for my studies.

I'll be totally honest with you, I have very little sexual experience and would like that to change with the right person. I'm more of the romantic and vanilla type, I like simple, gentle things full of tenderness. Not a fan at all of extreme kinks or too complicated practices.

One important thing: I'm not comfortable with the idea of sending photos right at the beginning, it's kind of a red line for me. I hope you'll understand.

If you're someone who is patient, respectful, and also likes simple and romantic things, feel free to send me a message so we can get to know each other!

Salut ! 19 ans, expatriée française en Belgique pour mes études.

Je vais être totalement honnête avec vous, j'ai très peu d'expérience sexuelle et j'aimerais bien que ça change avec la bonne personne. Je suis plutôt du genre romantique et vanilla, j'aime les choses simples, douces et pleines de tendresse. Pas du tout fan des kinks extrêmes ou des pratiques trop compliquées.

Petite chose importante : je ne suis pas à l'aise avec l'idée d'envoyer des photos dès le début, c'est une sorte de ligne rouge pour moi. J'espère que vous comprendrez.

Si vous êtes quelqu'un de patient, respectueux et qui aime aussi les choses simples et romantiques, n'hésitez pas à m'envoyer un message pour qu'on apprenne à se connaître !

Bonjour,

Jeune expatriée de 19 ans en Belgique pour les études, je cherche des personnes avec qui parler et discuter et pourquoi pas une rencontre au final 😄

N'ayez pas peur pour la Belgique, de temps en temps je reviens en France !

Ceux qui demandent rapidement des photos, même pas la peine de venir dans mes DM : avant cela, il faut une intimité et une confiance installée !

Commencez votre message par une question, la plus originale possible, qui me donne envie de vous répondre !

Étudiante fraîchement expatriée en Belgique pour mes études, je suis de nature assez réservée et timide, ce qui rend les conversations en face à face parfois compliquées pour moi.

C'est pourquoi je trouve bien plus aisé et confortable d'échanger et de discuter dans cet espace virtuel où je peux m'exprimer plus librement.

J'avoue avoir très peu d'expérience en matière de sexualité, un domaine qui m'intrigue énormément et sur lequel j'aimerais beaucoup apprendre et échanger sans tabous. Je ne suis pas encore prête à échanger des photos, surtout dans l'immédiat, j'ai besoin de construire une connexion intellectuelle d'abord.

Si mon profil vous interpelle, n'hésitez pas à venir me parler en privé avec une question originale ou une conversation qui sort de l'ordinaire, j'ai hâte de découvrir ce que nous pourrions partager ensemble.

À très bientôt dans mes messages privés pour des échanges passionnants et enrichissants !

genuinely curious about what you all consider the most intimate thing you can do with someone. That one thing that makes you feel truly connected and vulnerable. Is it eye contact? Sharing secrets? Something else? Slide into my DMs with your answer. I promise I read them all. Let's see what you come up with

Jeune femme de 19 ans, je me présente comme étant plutôt de nature introvertie dans la vie de tous les jours, bien que j'aspire à dépasser cette timidité pour retrouver le plaisir des relations intimes.

Mon expérience dans ce domaine reste limitée à une seule rencontre passée, et cette situation me laisse aujourd'hui avec un regret certain et un désir sincère d'explorer à nouveau ma sensualité.

Mon objectif est de renouer avec le plaisir sexuel dans un cadre bienveillant où je pourrai m'épanouir à mon propre rythme.

mon profil vous intéresse, je vous invite à me contacter en message privé pour que nous puissions faire connaissance plus intimement. Je tiens cependant à préciser d'emblée que toute insistance pour obtenir rapidement une photo entraînera un blocage immédiat, car j'ai besoin de construire une relation de confiance avant de partager des éléments plus personnels. Au plaisir de découvrir ceux qui sauront comprendre mes attentes et respecter mes conditions.

Jeune femme de 20 ans tout juste, qui cherche un partenaire pour explorer du plaisir à deux, de façon respectueuse, à l'écoute et tendre, mais attention je n'ai eu qu'un seul rapport sexuel jusqu'à aujourd'hui. Je suis quelqu'un de curieux, ouvert d'esprit et désireux d'apprendre tout en partageant des moments intimes et complices. J'aime la douceur, les caresses et les longs échanges qui permettent de créer une véritable connexion avant d'aller plus loin. Mon but est de découvrir mon corps et mes désirs dans un cadre bienveillant, sans pression ni jugement, où chaque geste serait mutuellement apprécié et respecté. J'ai envie d'explorer différentes facettes de la sensualité à un rythme qui nous conviendrait, en privilégiant la qualité du moment plutôt que la précipitation. Pas de demande de photos, et n'insistez pas, et soyez originaux dans vos questions en venant dans mon DM. Écrivez avec de vraies phrases également, montrez-moi que vous savez communiquer au-delà des simples conventions. Au plaisir de vous lire et peut-être de commencer cette belle aventure ensemble !

Bonjour,

Jeune française de 19 ans expatriée en Belgique pour les études, cherche un partenaire pour revivre des moments de plaisirs.

Voici quelques informations :

- ne demandez pas de photos directement

- je n'ai eu en tout et pour tout qu'un seul rapport sexuel... alors soyez indulgent

- soyez très original dans votre conversation

-écrivez des phrases complètes, c'est toujours plus agréable !

Au plaisir de vous lire !